Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Woman beater = alpha male?

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Cool, I hope this discussion dies. This would be a grand thread to kill with some true DJ discussion.

"Improve your Game" Have you talked about that on this site before? I've either come across a dead site and tagged it as something to go back and check later, or it was just something so inspiring that it created emotions inside of my mind.

How long has it been that you've kept it on hold? What was the purpose of it?

I'm sure Docs would be happy to get another DJ's thoughts on a company spin for his Ebiz 2.0 website.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cool, I hope this discussion dies. This would be a grand thread to kill with some true DJ discussion.

"Improve your Game" Have you talked about that on this site before? I've either come across a dead site and tagged it as something to go back and check later, or it was just something so inspiring that it created emotions inside of my mind.

How long has it been that you've kept it on hold? What was the purpose of it?

I'm sure Docs would be happy to get another DJ's thoughts on a company spin for his

I have mentioned it once or twice.

It’s been on hold for under a year now. The purpose of the site was basically to teach guys how to meet and seduce women. I think most PUA’s knower days have too many rules and regulations. I want to introduce my new method it revolves around inner game and natural game. It also entails some seduction but it is a lot more open there really are no rules. That makes it easier to learn and its more about implementing certain qualities in to your person and implementing certain ideal and beliefs into your life that make you successful. I don’t believe in all the rules sites like this set out.

It is also not only about women it’s about success in life to.

Rules make things harder to learn and make you feel constricted and worried I don’t think any person should go into the game feeling constricted and worried about fu*king up.

I’m moving to L.A to make a name for myself in the seduction community I also would like to get into directing of producing movies. I’m going to do a directing course at UNI that’s just my dream but for now I just want to get this IYG thing done for now.

I plan on making a name for myself by gaming some glammas and celebrities in L.A because we don’t have a whole lot of those in Australia.
 

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There was a routine that I had read about that you fake that your about to hit your target. (I usually only do it in attraction stage) It has worked real well for me I've done it like 3 times to the same girl on several occasions they burst out laughing, and loves it. It is suppose to show some alpha trait if I remember properly.

side note- I don't mean really hit them, just put your hand up and make a face as if your about to bitvh slap them
 

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Distant Light said:
There was a routine that I had read about that you fake that your about to hit your target. (I usually only do it in attraction stage) It has worked real well for me I've done it like 3 times to the same girl on several occasions they burst out laughing, and loves it. It is suppose to show some alpha trait if I remember properly.

side note- I don't mean really hit them, just put your hand up and make a face as if your about to bitvh slap them
Better be careful who you do that to. Any physically threatening movement like that to a woman who has been abused is going to cause an instinctive reaction. About half of those women will flinch and the other half will throw a knee into your crotch.

You really shouldn't even ever joke around about hitting someone you're romantically involved with. It just doesn't set a very good tone at all.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Actually man boobs...most men don't feel the urge to punch the women they are romantically involved with. The only men who get that urge are the worst of all AFCs who are unable to cope with their fears of being left.

It is natural for men to want to protect women, not hurt them. You're one sick little puppy...
 

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It is natural for men to want to protect women, not hurt them. You're one sick little puppy...
You see, theres an example. If you tried to shame men like that in real life the Average frustrated male reflex would probably want to knock your teeth out. ( an everyday common chick tactic used to belittle men to gain the upperhand, but HE doesnt know that. )

But knowing better and shedding my AFC ways I not only would pity you ( a woman past her use by date simply trying to gain younger mens attention and relive some of the old romantic fantasies ) but I can shrug it off and actually come out of it feeling better than I did before.

Viola.

btw a mans natural urge to protect his woman has nothing to do with anything I just typed.
 

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This is a stupid thread and it is really really sad that in a forum dedicated to discussing techniques and ideas about seduction only the useless, idiotic posts ever get replies.

A lot of fantastic posts out there get wasted away while this ridiculous sh*t gets 30 replies WTF are we doing people?
 

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I decided not to come in hear and talk about how outlandish this post is. Instead I'll ask you ...Is the advice in the DJ Bible as emotional or physically damaging as this? What are the chance of using something in the DJ Bible and going to jail, being labelled as a woman-beater and having possibly the worst tarnish avaliable to picking up smart women? What did women do that was so bad that makes you seriously contemplate abuse?

Goodbye.
 

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What did women do that was so bad that makes you seriously contemplate abuse?

Goodbye.
Dunno, what did men do that was so bad that made you seriously contemplate abuse?

Was it impossible for a woman to severely piss you off as much as a man could?

Disclaimer: With the resources available to the men here it should be impossible for you to be severely pissed off to the point of striking the person by either gender by now though.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Women don't like women beaters. They do like a$$holes though. But you can be an alpha male a$$hole without resorting to your fists. Just ignore their feelings and cheat on them any chance you get.
 

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You see, theres an example. If you tried to shame men like that in real life the Average frustrated male reflex would probably want to knock your teeth out. ( an everyday common chick tactic used to belittle men to gain the upperhand, but HE doesnt know that. )

But knowing better and shedding my AFC ways I not only would pity you ( a woman past her use by date simply trying to gain younger mens attention and relive some of the old romantic fantasies ) but I can shrug it off and actually come out of it feeling better than I did before.

Viola.

btw a mans natural urge to protect his woman has nothing to do with anything I just typed.
I'm not attempting to "shame" anyone. I'm simply stating the facts. Did you or did you not claim that all men have the urge to punch/hit women and give them black eyes? Yes, you did.

By making that statement you are telling everyone that YOU have the urge to punch women in the face and give them black eyes...and apparently you think that is normal.

I'm stating that it is NOT normal to have that urge. I dare say the vast majority of the members here would agree with me that it is NOT normal.

To believe what you do you clearly have some psychological problems, which can also be referred to as being "sick". You've got about a ton of emotional baggage and it might just do you some good to deal with it instead of letting it build up anymore than it already has.

If you feel any guilt or shame it's of your own making and all on you, because all I'm doing is pointing out the obvious facts.
 

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Wyldfire said:
I'm not attempting to "shame" anyone. I'm simply stating the facts. Did you or did you not claim that all men have the urge to punch/hit women and give them black eyes? Yes, you did.

By making that statement you are telling everyone that YOU have the urge to punch women in the face and give them black eyes...and apparently you think that is normal.

I'm stating that it is NOT normal to have that urge. I dare say the vast majority of the members here would agree with me that it is NOT normal.

To believe what you do you clearly have some psychological problems, which can also be referred to as being "sick". You've got about a ton of emotional baggage and it might just do you some good to deal with it instead of letting it build up anymore than it already has.

If you feel any guilt or shame it's of your own making and all on you, because all I'm doing is pointing out the obvious facts.

Yap yap yap, stop acting coy grandma you know I'm right. I'm always right.
 

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Yap yap yap, stop acting coy grandma you know I'm right. I'm always right.
You are nothing but pathetic.
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Every man who beats up women deserves to get beaten up twice as hard :trouble:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This is the most stupid thread since 1492!

BTW:

Woman beater = Omega male!
 
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Question for the Muslims among us

Q: When did you last beat up your wife?

a) yesterday
b) just before reading this question
c) which one of the seven?
 

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T!tboy, are you saying you'd beat a woman just for annoying you slightly?
 

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I have not read this thread....Cant be arsed. Basically to answer the first question. Why women stay with blokes who beat them and are a$$holes.

2 Reasons.

1. Nice guy vs Jerk Arguement. As explained on the Sosuave.com website.

2. They are scared of repercussions of leaving him. Lack of will power. Worry of lonelyness.

My 2 cents on hitting girls is it is completely not allowed unless a girl is threatening you with real harm.....(ie. shes going at you with a nife) or trying to kill you. This point self defence can be used and i would happliy stop any girl trying to phsyically harm me. Also if a girl tries to kick you/does kick you in the nuts intentionally....I would prob hit her then. Otherwise i would never hurt a female intenionally. My arguement is not hitting a women is "Gentleman like". I am willing to be Gentlemenlike if she is going to be Ladylike.

This all comes from a very non violent person. :box:
 

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DukeNukem said:
OFF-TOPIC:
Question for the Muslims among us

Q: When did you last beat up your wife?

a) yesterday
b) just before reading this question
c) which one of the seven?

Yea, I'll just have a cup of coffee for my breakfast...so go easy on the racism
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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