"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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woman asks you to marry her???

betheman

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happened to me, reaction? erm....no!
qualified it by saying if i was going to consider marriage, id be doing the asking. have to admit this was a strange one, id considered it but too many nags/red flags, wasnt going to work.
my doubt is, what is it behind the proposal? i suspect desparation in this case, she really wants the ring etc, i didnt want to give it!
what are the djs views on such a scenario?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bluntmaster

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My last BPD did this to me. She was BEGGING men to marry her. She was pathetic trash.
 

Scaramouche

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Dear betheman,
My second last LTR of 15 months gave me an ultimatum on marriage.....In the Train Ride of life,many Women see marriage as the final destination rather than one of many options.
 

L B

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Only do it when you're ready. Marriage does not = happiness.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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