Woman ask online: "Why does nobody wants to leave home anymore?" then the floodgate burst open

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

My personal opinion is that it's too expensive, annoyind and dangerous for the average man while the rate of return wheter it's fun/relax or sex doesnt justify the cost in terms of money and effort.

Top guys get laid on dating apps and netflix&chill plans while bottom guys are fatigued from the frustration and lack of results.

Regarding women, they just dont open their wallets so unless a sucker is paying, most of the activities are avoided.

If you are european you also have the bonus of the sand people around that are equally annoying/dangerous for bystanders at night like their fellows from star wars.

Overall we recently have a huge increase in costs and an equally important decrease in terms of service.

Men in general are not particularly social, most of socialiation was due to finding the baddies...no straight man ever went to a bar to dance.

https://x.com/HustleBitch_/status/2033285786510950489

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

sounds like a lot of excuses.

men are content to goon to anime girls and talk on discord all day with autistic degens all day. thats men aren't leaving their home.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

sounds like a lot of excuses.

men are content to goon to anime girls and talk on discord all day with autistic degens all day. thats men aren't leaving their home.

If a man stops pursuing women and fap on anime girls instead, that man has a problem but if a huge percentage of young men decide to do the same, I believe the problem is bigger than considered.

 

[corrector]

sounds like a lot of excuses.

men are content to goon to anime girls and talk on discord all day with autistic degens all day. thats men aren't leaving their home.

If this were the 00s, then you'd have a point. It's not a young gen-X world anymore where that would make sense.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

If a man stops pursuing women and fap on anime girls instead, that man has a problem but if a huge percentage of young men decide to do the same, I believe the problem is bigger than considered.

i believe one of the many culripts is low T and increased rates of autism

If this were the 00s, then you'd have a point. It's not a young gen-X world anymore where that would make sense.

i mean i'm pretty sure gooning and hentai is a bigger problem today than it's ever been

 

[Gamisch]

I agree that the ROI is the real problem. Men don't wanna spend tons of money to eventually be nothing but a spectator. Staying home watching a screen is actually similar but costs way less.

Men also tend to be snakes amongst each other, as soon as one does find a girl he is out i
of the game whereas women will ne more lokey to maintain their relationships with friends. The western men simply isn't as social as their female counterparts

This is what I mean when I say women live in their "happy bubble" where they have zero clue of what men are actually going through.the fact that women complain tells you that " Chad and Tyrone " are also opting out more and more...

 

[Slowhandluke]

women: "Today's men are losers... we women would never date them"
also
women: "Why don't men go out more, chase us and date us anymore?

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Long story short:

Covid lockdowns trained people to stay at home.

I know an alcohol distributer and he explained to me why and how worldwide alcohol sales (to bars and restaurants) utterly plummeted after Covid.

The same thing happened to the movie industry.

The same thing happened two live meetings - replaced by zoom.

 

[Solomon]

I just got a foot and half of snow that's why I don't go out....

jokes aside, I realize I don't jive with a lot of people even here. I have tried various hobbies, scenes, met different people from all walks of life throughout my life. During lockdown and covid 2020-2021, being at home forced me to confront a lot of stuff I've been ignoring cause I would always be out. from 201-2022 it was a period of spiritual growth and 2023 till now has been insane chaos with my mother dying etc.

Not to sound like a Debbie Downer but once your mother dies or a parent you love you I rather be walking in through a beatiful park then be a loud bar with music blaring and scandily drunk bops

p.s. dont get it confused I use to go out a lot, and I still do but going out for me in 2026 is going to park, volleyball court to drink and see the girlies, and having lunch with my friends

 

[The Duke]

Drinking at bars is really expensive these days. I don't know how young people afford it.

 

[characternote]

Our old mate SW15 (rip) always had the best answers for this sort of thing.
I don't know what it is, but I know a LOT of men who are still living at home at an age where, when I was a kid, would seem odd - but now it is seemingly normalised.

I'm talking quite a lot of men! I'm in the UK. Rents down south where i live are very high and I guess unless you have a very well paid job, most people have no chance of having their own place. Not even a shoebox. So that's a big part of it.
But I think an equally bigger part is that guys don't really see the upside of it all. When I was like 20, I remember getting tired of having to sneak girls in (even though my parents were super chill and even found it funny) and so wanted my own place for that reason. Plus I also felt that it would increase my chances in certain situations in general.

But Most guys are getting zero play with the girls they want. If any at all. So It's not as though NOT having their own place makes a difference to them. They know that having their own place wouldn't make the smallest bit of difference to their success with girls. So men are like 'Why the hell would I get my own place, spend all my money on rent, and have no obvious benefit at all. I can just live at home and have a tonne of money to spend on (whatever hobby/travel/etc) each month to give me some happiness''
I think a lot of things men done in the past were really to do with sex. But now that more men than ever are having less sex than ever before (effect of smartphone etc?), then lots of them 'things' don't happen much. It could probably spill over into men literally deciding that work in general is pointless, tbh! In fact, I think there are stats that show voluntary NEETness is massively on the up.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Long story short:

Covid lockdowns trained people to stay at home.

I know an alcohol distributer and he explained to me why and how worldwide alcohol sales (to bars and restaurants) utterly plummeted after Covid.

The same thing happened to the movie industry.

The same thing happened two live meetings - replaced by zoom.

lol imagine actually staying home during covid b/c you were told to

you're probably right though

 

[Slowhandluke]

.

Long story short:

Covid lockdowns trained people to stay at home.

I know an alcohol distributer and he explained to me why and how worldwide alcohol sales (to bars and restaurants) utterly plummeted after Covid.

The same thing happened to the movie industry.

The same thing happened two live meetings - replaced by zoom.

WW2 made people F like crazy. the results of which were the baby boomers. one would assume covid would make people want to see other people again especially of the opposite sex just like the GIs that came home from fighting and not having any female companionship for a while; long nights in a foxhole alone or with another dude.

its like male prisoners getting put of prison after a lengthy sentencing... they just want to do it. hell, prisoners have conjugal visits, right?

But after covid, men were like "nope"... women were a standoffish but that has always been the case since men were suppose to chase.

 

[zekko]

But after covid, men were like "nope"... women were a standoffish but that has always been the case since men were suppose to chase.

Which is annoying because chasing doesn't work (usually), and men today I think are more aware than ever that chasing doesn't work..

 

[Clockwerk50]

Which is annoying because chasing doesn't work (usually), and men today I think are more aware than ever that chasing doesn't work..

The whole process starts by putting your name in the hat whether by approaching in person, through social media, dating apps, or by becoming friends. That’s how both men and women get on each other’s radar and create the possibility of something happening. If you don’t do that, nothing happens because the other person doesn’t even know you exist.

Our old mate SW15 (rip) always had the best answers for this sort of thing.
I don't know what it is, but I know a LOT of men who are still living at home at an age where, when I was a kid, would seem odd - but now it is seemingly normalised.

I'm talking quite a lot of men! I'm in the UK. Rents down south where i live are very high and I guess unless you have a very well paid job, most people have no chance of having their own place. Not even a shoebox. So that's a big part of it.
But I think an equally bigger part is that guys don't really see the upside of it all. When I was like 20, I remember getting tired of having to sneak girls in (even though my parents were super chill and even found it funny) and so wanted my own place for that reason. Plus I also felt that it would increase my chances in certain situations in general.

But Most guys are getting zero play with the girls they want. If any at all. So It's not as though NOT having their own place makes a difference to them. They know that having their own place wouldn't make the smallest bit of difference to their success with girls. So men are like 'Why the hell would I get my own place, spend all my money on rent, and have no obvious benefit at all. I can just live at home and have a tonne of money to spend on (whatever hobby/travel/etc) each month to give me some happiness''
I think a lot of things men done in the past were really to do with sex. But now that more men than ever are having less sex than ever before (effect of smartphone etc?), then lots of them 'things' don't happen much. It could probably spill over into men literally deciding that work in general is pointless, tbh! In fact, I think there are stats that show voluntary NEETness is massively on the up.

I left my parents’ house at 24 because I not only wanted more independence, but I was also annoyed living under their rules. I’m 37 now, and my brother, who is 30, still lives with them. I told one of the girls I’m dating that I think he may never move out because my mom basically acts like his maid since she cooks, cleans, does the grocery shopping, and other things. His personality doesn’t help either since he has a short fuse, isn’t very mature, and lacks empathy.

Anyways, we’ve always assumed he’s staying there mainly to save money (apparently he has around $50,000–$70,000 saved up), but this girl told me that she saw him answering to a bunch Tinder message he was getting when we were hanging out. He kept turning his phone away so she wouldn’t see. Our assumption is that he has girls in his pipeline.

I also have an employee in his 30s whose main hobbies are playing video games and going to comic or gaming conventions. He doesn’t drive because he’s scared, so his parents pick him up, and he still lives in their basement surrounded by Pokémon plushies and a high-end computer setup. Last week was his birthday, and I jokingly asked if I could come to his party. He said, “Are you sure? There will be a lot of young people there.” I laughed and told him, “Bro, you’re 30 lol.” He says he likes women but doesn't like anyone currenlty, never had a girlfriend, and he is mainly asexual.

You could say these are the only people I know under 30 who still live with their parents who are not my friend's teenager children.

 

[Slowhandluke]

The whole process starts by putting your name in the hat whether by approaching in person, through social media, dating apps, or by becoming friends. That’s how both men and women get on each other’s radar and create the possibility of something happening. If you don’t do that, nothing happens because the other person doesn’t even know you exist.



I left my parents’ house at 24 because I not only wanted more independence, but I was also annoyed living under their rules. I’m 37 now, and my brother, who is 30, still lives with them. I told one of the girls I’m dating that I think he may never move out because my mom basically acts like his maid since she cooks, cleans, does the grocery shopping, and other things. His personality doesn’t help either since he has a short fuse, isn’t very mature, and lacks empathy.

Anyways, we’ve always assumed he’s staying there mainly to save money (apparently he has around $50,000–$70,000 saved up), but this girl told me that she saw him answering to a bunch Tinder message he was getting when we were hanging out. He kept turning his phone away so she wouldn’t see. Our assumption is that he has girls in his pipeline.

I also have an employee in his 30s whose main hobbies are playing video games and going to comic or gaming conventions. He doesn’t drive because he’s scared, so his parents pick him up, and he still lives in their basement surrounded by Pokémon plushies and a high-end computer setup. Last week was his birthday, and I jokingly asked if I could come to his party. He said, “Are you sure? There will be a lot of young people there.” I laughed and told him, “Bro, you’re 30 lol.” He says he likes women but doesn't like anyone currenlty, never had a girlfriend, and he is mainly asexual.

You could say these are the only people I know under 30 who still live with their parents who are not my friend's teenager children.

Which is worse? Living in your parents basement not really caring about dating, but yet still have a bit of malaise. Or being in one situationship after another, always trying to find the perfect guy... because society says, if he isn't your everything; he's your nothing. Getting railed, and then after the 6 month period, having no one... then the 40's hit; and the wrinkles appear...

Tik tok.. tik tok.... Time doesn't go in reverse...

 

[MatureDJ]

My personal opinion is that it's too expensive, annoyind and dangerous for the average man while the rate of return wheter it's fun/relax or sex doesnt justify the cost in terms of money and effort.

Top guys get laid on dating apps and netflix&chill plans while bottom guys are fatigued from the frustration and lack of results.

I think this is the crux of the matter. Normies see Chads not having to put up any effort to get sexed, and resent the fact that they have to wine & dine women - many women being serial daters just looking for a good meal - just to have a chance. These Normies thus want to get sexed as easily as Chads do, and are loathe to put out any effort. I myself have very little tolerance for "dating" a woman that seems like I'm doing her a favor, as opposed to someone that I wouldn't have to try all that hard for.

If you are european you also have the bonus of the sand people around that are equally annoying/dangerous for bystanders at night like their fellows from star wars.

Yes, having these EthnicCels in the midst of blonde-haired, blue-eyed women has been a disaster.

 

[MatureDJ]

p.s. dont get it confused I use to go out a lot, and I still do but going out for me in 2026 is going to park, volleyball court to drink and see the girlies, and having lunch with my friends

Every one of these volleyball babes mog the sheet out of me:

https://theathleticbuild.com/hottest-female-volleyball-players/

 

[Solomon]

Every one of these volleyball babes mog the sheet out of me:

https://theathleticbuild.com/hottest-female-volleyball-players/

We are talking a local league in the burbs don't get me wrong it's some cute middle-aged women but I noticed some are build funky and those are the ones that tend to show it all which IMO is not necessary ha ha. Stay away from the drunk wives cause they come in hot and unashamed

But VB is easisest place to talk to chicks cause it's a mixed league maybe one day in the future I join when I feel like it but for now I ocasiuanly go watch and mingle with the normies