Woman Always Watching Me?

[itstough]

I have a weird thing that is bugging me with this one woman and want to know what is with her.

I work at this place near a resturant where this woman works at. I always go in there and she never speaks and I never speak. Well one day I am standing outside of work and she comes in the HB van to work "She comes with like 15 other hot waitress" So she is standing there waiting for somebody to open the door. I get this feeling somebody is watching me so I look up and see her looking at me. I thought HMMM I am going to go talk to her today. So I go in and paid for my food and just said "How are you today?" She seemed scared and looked up said she was OK and just stared at me like a deer in the headlights. I was finished after that because I was kind of in shock of her reaction. So like an idiot all that could come to my head was to ask her who some guy was that works there. Yeah real smart I know. So she kind of tells me and is all smiles etc. Well I am still in shock of her reaction so I was just like see you later and started to walk off. She then almost yells out "BYE BYE Have A Nice Day" So I go back another day expecting to talk with her a little since we talked before well she does not say anything. I am thinking she is going to say something well she does not.

I am standing outside of work again taking one of our 3 hour breaks when she comes to work and everytime my back is turned she is looking over at me. Another time I am walking from my car through the parking lot towards where I work and she is to the right of my quit a ways and is walking with one of her co-workers. So something made her friend look back and she saw me so she taps her on the shoulder and pointed towards me. Well as I continue to walk she watches me then looks forward and then looks back etc. All the time I was not looking at her. She was doing this behind my back although I had a way I saw it.

Every time I go in there with co-workers they all seem to notice her watching me while I am up at the buffet getting my food. One guy said that she was watching me then trying to not let anybody meaning her boss co-workers see her looking at me!?

She is the Hostess/Cashier so everytime I go in she has to hand me a container for my food and I pay her so We both have plenty of time to talk but she just seems so weird. She did ask me If I work at XYZ 2 times when she knows damn well I work there so I guess she was trying to start a convo but she will not !?

So What is up with her? I do not really care to go out with her anymore but I just wanna kind of know whats up with her because I have never seen nothing like it before.

 

[KoalaKing]

I have had this type of thing happen to me a couple of times with woman who I never thought would have been attracted to me and to tell you the truth I was never able to find out if they were.

The first time this happened was when I was 18, she was a very serious but stunningly attractive straight type of older 28 year old woman, who was a bar maid at the pub I used to drink at, she didn't seem to show a lot of interest in me when she served me a beer at the bar, but she constantly looked at me everywhere I went, my friends also noticed this, like you she was friendly yet also strange whenever I spoke to her.

The second time this happened was when I was 31, she was about 45, and very much the same type of personality as the first woman and gorgeous to look at as well, it was exactly the same, she looked at me all of the time, it seemed strange, as she didn't seem to be making any real moves or even flirting with me.

To this day I still don't know if they were attracted to me, or frightened of me or what, they seemed friendly when we spoke, yet it was a spooky type of thing, as they never gave anything away, so even though I have had the same experience as you have twice I can't tell you what she is thinking as I was never confident enough about it to find out.

 

[DonJuanByNature]

This is so freaking boring.. jeezes.. just talk to the girl.. i.e. say this

"hey, correct me if im wrong, but i think you been staring me", "Was I mistaken, or did I just happen to be the lucky one right now?" "Hey, I gotta get back to work, write down your number for me, I will call you later when I have more time to talk"

CASE CLOSED, you dummy...

 

[usdaprime]

This is so freaking boring.. jeezes.. just talk to the girl.. i.e. say this

"hey, correct me if im wrong, but i think you been staring me", "Was I mistaken, or did I just happen to be the lucky one right now?" "Hey, I gotta get back to work, write down your number for me, I will call you later when I have more time to talk"

CASE CLOSED, you dummy...

LMAO This is exactly the type of person I was talking about in the "We need a AFC forum." Gotta Love his signature " One who hesitates, masterbates.... Noobs!" <---- Join Date June 2006! LMAO you veteran you **** those Noobs damn glad you are not a Noob or anything. Oh and always resort to name calling! Damn good looking out for calling him a Dummy!
A Chat Log I Found!

DonJuanByNature: Damn B1tch I am da man!

WillSwallow4Food: Hmmm are you?

DonJuanByNature: He11 yeah b1tch just check out So Suave.com I ****ing own them puss1es over there! I am a tough M0ther fuxker I just called some guys some names today!!

WillSwallow4Food::: Damn player I just checked you out and wow 193 posts since last month? I thought it was suppose to be quality not quanity?

DonJuanByNature:: Shut the fuxk up b1tch I ****ing taught Pook! Now get on your fuxking knees before i smack your ass!!

WillSwallow4Food:: OMG Jason is that you?

DonJuanByNature:: MOM???

WillSwallow4Food:: Jason now quit ****ing around on the internet and get upstairs is time for me to give you a bath! !


Itstough This chick is probably just shy. I cannot think of another reason why she would look at you. I say just keep trying to talk to her and maybe she will open up eventually. But hey what do I know

 

[DonJuanByNature]

Damn good looking out for calling him a Dummy!

Its like when a comedian says "FCK" i.e. it sounds crass but at same time makes it funny.. reason being it envokes attention..

What I am trying to say is that me saying "DUMMY" is trying to verbally give a wake up call... its used for "attention" purposes and not "demeaning" or "belittling" purposes...

it also represents the type of attitute you need to be in to get it done.. i.e. its not just "saying" the words, its going allong with them...

Today me and a buddy walked over to a store, on my way over there I got 4 numbers, and a 2 ladies wrote my number down.. That is a total of 6 numbers... (obviously I talked to a ton of girls).. well I pretty much talked to anything that was above a 6.... So what are my chance I will fck one?

anyways... put yourself in the right frame of mind.... "dummy"