"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KSoze

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Ok,

I hooked up with this girl two months ago...I suppose it was only supposed to be a one night stand...we were drinking, etc.
Anyways, i've been seeing this girl for two months...We have went to a couple concerts, museums and such...we've been sleeping together of course...She's smart, talented, and fun to be around and i like her...neither of us are in this for just sex...we do lots of things that dont involve sex...she's not using me to get stuff either because i dont spend a whole lot of cash on her and im not going too because we arent in a relationship...
However i dont know what the point is anymore???

She says she doesnt wanna be in a relationship because she doesnt have time...she is busy with school, yada yada yada...she's the over achiever type that spends all of her time on schoolwork and she wants to move to Newyork in a few years...occasionally, we will go a week without seeing each other...I dont have much time either, i work a lot but im of the attitude if i wanted something to work I could ya know??

Im 28 and im contemplating just ending it because im not sure its gonna go anywhere...I'd like to be in a relationship and believe I could find someone with the same idea...I havent pushed that idea on her either, she just told me she didnt wanna be in a relationship one night; i didnt even bring it up...


peace
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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kyphan

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So either

1) Keep her around on the side for fun while pursuing other women, since it seems like you enjoy being with her

or

2) Drop her and simply pursue other women
 
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