Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
1. This time it comes from a women who deals professionally with that stuff and she had experienced this in her own lifeWatched into the first few minutes. Sounds like old red-pill information. It's sounding too elementary for me to want to continue watching hte video. Sounds like the alpha-fvcks/beta-bucks and beta-marriage dead bedroom scenario (ie with the technical bragging rights of not being an incel or a social outcast?). There is no new information on here. Too basic for me to want to view the rest of the video after watching the first few minutes. If there is anything important, as in actual new information, let us know.
You've been on the board for a while. What is the point of this video in terms of new information?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She listed 5 reasons and the last one (Number 5) is the one she cited as most important.That Gal runs the “good wife” channel on YouTube.
This is the clip that was used. It’s actually quite good:
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