"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Woman Admits Sex IS JUST A TRAP | Briffault’s Law

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Watched into the first few minutes. Sounds like old red-pill information. It's sounding too elementary for me to want to continue watching hte video. Sounds like the alpha-fvcks/beta-bucks and beta-marriage dead bedroom scenario (ie with the technical bragging rights of not being an incel or a social outcast?). There is no new information on here. Too basic for me to want to view the rest of the video after watching the first few minutes. If there is anything important, as in actual new information, let us know.

You've been on the board for a while. What is the point of this video in terms of new information?
 

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Watched into the first few minutes. Sounds like old red-pill information. It's sounding too elementary for me to want to continue watching hte video. Sounds like the alpha-fvcks/beta-bucks and beta-marriage dead bedroom scenario (ie with the technical bragging rights of not being an incel or a social outcast?). There is no new information on here. Too basic for me to want to view the rest of the video after watching the first few minutes. If there is anything important, as in actual new information, let us know.

You've been on the board for a while. What is the point of this video in terms of new information?
1. This time it comes from a women who deals professionally with that stuff and she had experienced this in her own life

2. The 'fact' that it happens subconsciouly. So the woman wants the relationship to work. Her body singnals that sexx is great but after securing the relationship there is a switch. Her body betrays her and him.

3. We have still a lot of members it seems that think women are not much less horny than men. This might be a small argument against that opinion.
 

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4. She blames her man because she does not know it is her biology. So the relationship becomes very toxic and it spreads out to the whole society.
 

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That Gal runs the “good wife” channel on YouTube.

This is the clip that was used. It’s actually quite good:

 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That Gal runs the “good wife” channel on YouTube.

This is the clip that was used. It’s actually quite good:

She listed 5 reasons and the last one (Number 5) is the one she cited as most important.

5. We Have Weakened Our Husbands to the Point of Not Being Attracted to Them

This is related to a lot of concepts that we discuss and a post I made earlier (see below). This is most related to Iron Rule of Tomassi #1, which is about men maintaining a frame in the relationship in which men control the terms of the interaction. Loss of frame is common in relationships as they progress. I believe both men and women contribute to this problem. I also think there's an issue with the personality types that enter relationships. Women with more dominant type traits are entering relationships with men with more beta traits. It can be estimated that 60% of Western women have more dominant type traits and 80% of men are some level of beta male. Dominants and betas are going to pair bond. Over time, a man's initial beta frame will weaken and become more beta and a woman will lean in to her dominant frame. This will cause problems.

There are also Alpha/Sigma males that can lose their way in a relationship too. This is problematic if they lose their way and end up in a beta frame. I've seen this happen.

While all longer term relationships do erode in quality over time (I've long believed in a common shelf life of goodness of about 5 years), sometimes what remains after the quality erosion is good enough to warrant continuing on and it has a reasonable degree of quality. These are the Alpha/Sigmas/Greater Betas that have least retain enough frame.

 
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