That Gal runs the “good wife” channel on YouTube.
This is the clip that was used. It’s actually quite good:
She listed 5 reasons and the last one (Number 5) is the one she cited as most important.
5. We Have Weakened Our Husbands to the Point of Not Being Attracted to Them
This is related to a lot of concepts that we discuss and a post I made earlier (see below). This is most related to Iron Rule of Tomassi #1, which is about men maintaining a frame in the relationship in which men control the terms of the interaction. Loss of frame is common in relationships as they progress. I believe both men and women contribute to this problem. I also think there's an issue with the personality types that enter relationships. Women with more dominant type traits are entering relationships with men with more beta traits. It can be estimated that 60% of Western women have more dominant type traits and 80% of men are some level of beta male. Dominants and betas are going to pair bond. Over time, a man's initial beta frame will weaken and become more beta and a woman will lean in to her dominant frame. This will cause problems.
There are also Alpha/Sigma males that can lose their way in a relationship too. This is problematic if they lose their way and end up in a beta frame. I've seen this happen.
While all longer term relationships do erode in quality over time (I've long believed in a common shelf life of goodness of about 5 years), sometimes what remains after the quality erosion is good enough to warrant continuing on and it has a reasonable degree of quality. These are the Alpha/Sigmas/Greater Betas that have least retain enough frame.
Sigh. Another thread about height. I’m barely 5’4” and I’ve banged more women than most of my friends. My current gf is taller then me and my last gf was taller then me. Short men can get women. Okay but if you were 6'2 would you have to work as hard? If everything else was equal but you were...
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