woke up to this, need advise before noon

[tryst type]

i wake up and find text messages from my girlfriend that read:

"I need to tell you something, i don't know how you'll react. i didn't cheat on you though haha nothing remotely close to those lines. it's actually no big deal"

she's still sleeping so i didn't get a reply back when i asked what it was.
only thing i can think of is she either A. gave out her number to some boy or B agreed to hang out with one.
she's been mentioning a kid at work that flirts with her sometimes which she'll bring up on occasion almost as a test to how i react. i always push her onto him and say something along the lines of "he sounds hot, go for him"

now my question is, if it turns out to be that guy or any other guy, would i be overreacting by breaking things off with us if she has given out her number or agreed to hang out? to me thats a clear sign of interest and id rather not stick around confirming 100%

 

[Igetit!]

To be honest man, those are words that your never want to her out of your girl's mouth. It's kind of hard to say whether or not it would be overreacting. Generally, whenever a man makes a "emotional" decision, it's a bad one. Only you know your history with this girl, so it is up to you to decide if you want to stay or go. But let's say that she did give out her number out to a guy. To me, instead of overreacting to her giving her number out, I would want to know "why" she gave her number out. You can ask her directly, but chances are you are going to get a bogus answer or one that doesn't make sense.

 

[immrtlwun]

Correct me if I'm wrong, but from the sound of your post, you guys are exclusive. If that's the case, and she gave out her number or agreed to see another guy, turn her into a plate and date other girls as well. Don't make a huge deal out of it and say something like "well if you're going to date other guys, I'll date other girls." Just be subtle and slowly distance yourself while dating other girls.

 

[In2theGame]

I think either way she will lie or water down what really happened if it involves another guy. we ALL know how girls always tell half the story when it comes to things like this. The only true way to ever find out the whole story is if you hear it from one of her girlfriends because an example would be like this...



Her to B/F: we talked and i gave him my number, We hung out for a bit but nothing happened and i left. Im sorry baby


Her to her G-F: Omg, like he put his arms around me but i didnt wanna seem slutty or anything, then he took out his HUGE C*ck and my mouth was watering, Omg, The moon, the stars, his C*ock.... it was just magical.