"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I am a jazz nut as everyone knows. Was listening to the radio and a song that is a standard called wives and lovers came on. I am sure some of you older people know this song, but some of the younger catgs my age might not. here are the lyrics
Hey! Little Girl
Comb your hair, fix your makeup
Soon he will open the door
Don't think because there's a ring on your finger
You needn't try anymore

For wives should always be lovers too
Run to his arms the moment he comes home to you
I'm warning you...

Day after day
There are girls at the office
And men will always be men
Don't send him off with your hair still in curlers
You may not see him again

For wives should always be lovers too
Run to his arms the moment he comes home to you
He's almost here...

Hey! Little girl
Better wear something pretty
Something you'd wear to go to the city and
Dim all the lights, pour the wine, start the music
Time to get ready for love
Time to get ready
Time to get ready for love

written at a time when women were considered lucky to have a good man, not the other way around. I got to thinking, man... do you know how much of a ****ing stink this song would get if someone had the nerve to tell a woman that just beucase she is married she isn't supposed to quit putting out, that it's not a "fact of life" Just puts in perspective how times have changed.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Men had it good back then. I think too many of them didn't appreciate it and abused the privilege of having subservient wives, which led to feminism and emasculation that we see today.
 

Rollo Tomassi

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Frank Sinatra's version was much better.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Julius_Seizeher

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Hey, did you see where that Michael Buble guy quit crooning and went pop?

He is to carry the flag of Frank Sinatra and Dean Martin!

Instead he gets a gf and turns into cat stevens.
 

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Yeah, but Frank is the textbook definition of Alpha. Sounds better coming from a Man.
 

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Back in the day, Sinatra's **** was nearly as famous as he was. Reportedly, it was so big he had to strap it to the inside of his leg.
 
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