"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Witty game wont get you laid

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Observe it, the vulgar often laugh, but never smile, whereas well-bred people often smile, and seldom or never laugh. A witty thing never excited laughter, it pleases only the mind and never distorts the countenance.


- Lord Chesterfield


Witty game wont get you laid. INTENT and being sexual will excite a woman. Take a chance and make your sexual intent more obvious instead of trying to impress a woman with your classy game......... be vulgar.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Being stuck on one single mindset won't get you laid. Each tool in your arsenal is meant to be used where it is most effective, not thrown about at every opportunity, hoping it works. There is a time and place where being direct will be most effective, and times when being indirect works best. Your job is to read the situation and apply the most effective tool to get whatever it is you want.
 

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Wit is a tool.

So is being bold in your intent.

It all depends on the chick and the situation, you can't dismiss wit just because you found a quote about it.

Like Eph said there's a time and a place for everything.
 

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Eph said:
Being stuck on one single mindset won't get you laid. Each tool in your arsenal is meant to be used where it is most effective, not thrown about at every opportunity, hoping it works. There is a time and place where being direct will be most effective, and times when being indirect works best. Your job is to read the situation and apply the most effective tool to get whatever it is you want.
Yup.
 

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When it comes to attraction.. women want either something practical or something exciting. This is why "game" is mostly bullsh!t.

Women can tell pretty quickly if a man has something she wants. That will be the main factor driving her interest.. not the PUA bullsh!t he says. Women are always looking past your words to see what you DO and what you OFFER.

PUA lines are similar to a place like Burger King telling customers they have a nice shirt when they visit. In the end.. the customer wants to eat. Being told they have a nice shirt will not make them any more or less interested in the food. Likewise, PUA bullsh!t will not raise a woman's interest level if you offer nothing else.

Wake up men.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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old_skoolr said:
Wit is a tool.

So is being bold in your intent.

It all depends on the chick and the situation, you can't dismiss wit just because you found a quote about it.

Like Eph said there's a time and a place for everything.
Nerdy chicks love witty game.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Nerdy chicks love witty game.
Being witty is a sign of intelligence and humour.

2 things women love.
 
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