Withholding attention is one of the best ways to control women

[Scars]

No. You don’t break up with your LTR every time she does something wrong.

Who said anything about LTRs or breaking up? In my post I was talking about from a plate-spinning perspective. However I have definitely dropped girls for "doing something wrong" if the offense was big enough, or if it becomes a consistent issue.

The willingness to walk away should be implied. Even if you're in a relationship, you should still be desirable to other females. Women who have HV men and are scared to death of losing them don't jeopardize it by doing stupid sh!t, especially if they've already been warned.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Who said anything about LTRs or breaking up? In my post I was talking about from a plate-spinning perspective. However I have definitely dropped girls for "doing something wrong" if the offense was big enough, or if it becomes a consistent issue.

The post quoted was specifically about disciplining an LTR. Not about plate spinning.

 

[Divorced w 3]

I have to co-sign this. This is even working with my miserable ex wife. I told her zero written communication moving forward and that she could call if she needed me. Have gotten more done with her in a week than in the last 9 months.

 

[CyrusTheGreat]

People make the mistake of yelling at a girl but often times this reinforces if she upsets you she gets attention. Not unlike kids who who act out if you get no attention or are attention starved negative attention is better then no attention.

Simply ignore her or respond to things in the most minimal way when she does things against your wishes. And set firm boundaries at any moment be prepared to go cold. Only reward good things with attention (she makes you a meal) attention (she cleans something) attention she doesn't clean something withhold it and act cold. Always give her the impression you are one step away from leaving her.

It's a fairly good strategy. It only works if she has high IL and you don't need to do it often. Otherwise, it's not gonna work.