"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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with valentines looming next week are girls this weekend more available?

big weezy

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I number closed 3 HBs yesterday and noticed a sudden increase of availability from these women more so than you'd expect. Its not that I'm that great at picking up I think the face valentines is looming is making them more receptive? Also if I met the girl at a houseparty yesterday is it too soon to call tomorrow 2 days after I met her? She was really drunk and I don't want her to forget who she met with all those different guys at the party. I'd normally wait longer but valentines is looming so I feel I should be taking her out mon or tues given the timeframe. Is this reasonable under the circumstances?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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big weezy

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what are girls usually thinking this week that valentines is coming soon, no girl wants to be alone on valentines day, is going on a date with them or a 2nd date a good idea?

im trying to set up 1st dates in the next couple days, wouldn't valentines be a great opportunity to set something up or would stunning single HBs have a lot of options in line anyway?
 

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Last year I went out with two girls valentines day weekend, of course my game was terrible at that point so I fvcked it up, the single ones will probably be available if you show some interest....

I feel like girls will want more of a "nice guy" (but with the same dominant, secure disposition) on Valentines Day....they had dirty, spontaneous sex on New Years and now they're wanting a more emotional connection.

And sex, of course. Lots and lots of sex.
 

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but what about setting up dates for tomorrow and tuesday, what about the follow ups for valentines on sunday?
 

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big weezy ... you are not seeing things man, i noticed the same thing ...had crazy things happen to me this week

I number closed 3 girls.... all 3 girls were literally excited that i started talking to them (i would describe it as like winning the lottery lol...i am not joking) Right away they were showing IOI's hair playing, putting on lip gloss, asking me whole bunch of random questions etc. I also noticed girls starring at me , yes literally starring at me and once i catch them they dont even try to look away, i have to stop looking at them to prevent it from becoming awkward.

4th girl HB 8.5 really sweet girl, love her innocent look and voice
,i started conversation with her 1 minute after talking she told me her name and asked me for mine... than she asked me for my number!!!!!!
Than made sure that i know her name by telling me her name again after i gave her number LOL?It was crazy i didnt know what to do never been this easy and didnt ask for her number...my mistake
I suggested we study on Sunday she said she had plans w friends for SB , i told her i am hosting a sb party too so thats why i will be leaving library before 5:30... she offered to study w me on a SATURDAY!!! whaaaaat weekend ...i declined saying i had plans... dont want to be too available. She told me she would give me a call today if she could do it (no call... )
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Valentines Day is stupid and pointless. Stay home and watch the NBA All Star game instead. Sure beats blowing a huge wad of cash on some chick on some girl who might or might not sleep with you. It should renamed too......"Men prove their inferiority to women day" I can't bring myself to do something nice cause its expected on that day. That takes the meaning out of doing something nice and I want no part of that. Don't even bother going out on amateur night.
 

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cletus said:
Valentines Day is stupid and pointless. Stay home and watch the NBA All Star game instead. Sure beats blowing a huge wad of cash on some chick on some girl who might or might not sleep with you. It should renamed too......"Men prove their inferiority to women day."
Somteimes I think it should be renamed AFC Awareness Day!

But OP, most women fear being left on the shelf on Valentine's day. These same girls might not be so receptive to you in March.

Also, read Exhumed's first two sentences.
 
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