"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It has been my experience,

Its pretty BLACK and WHITE...WHen you go to pick a CHICk, YOU BRING IT AND ONLY WHEN YOU BRING IT..you will have success.. ANything less such as playing the phone number lottery game or acting shy is or half assed half hearted try is just waisting yours and hers time ( what more, probably just not helping your self confidence )...ANything less than your best..Is an automatic FAil....Why set yourself up for that?

some of you might not have the balls, or even that putting that much effort, some of you might think that learning the correct BL and is a waste of time or 'they can wing it'. But they have to be this way, Sedution is a dance , you have to do things in a certain time in an certain way and only then will you advance to the next step. Any fear, you are automatically
Fail....


Your best Games includes..., Put on the Frame, good Body Language, good Vocal, witty ****y-funny, dress to impress, and ...come out there like YOUR READY TO PLAY...you come with your game face


. With women, ITs all OR Nothing. Its either you come to the field LIKE YOU MEAN IT..OR you know what your doing is just practicing ....ANyway less than your best effort is just masturbating your time and your mental energy thinking about what you did wrong.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mackdaddy27 said:
It has been my experience,

Its pretty BLACK and WHITE...WHen you go to pick a CHICk, YOU BRING IT AND ONLY WHEN YOU BRING IT..you will have success.. ANything less such as playing the phone number lottery game or acting shy is or half assed half hearted try is just waisting yours and hers time ( what more, probably just not helping your self confidence )...ANything less than your best..Is an automatic FAil....Why set yourself up for that?

some of you might not have the balls, or even that putting that much effort, some of you might think that learning the correct BL and is a waste of time or 'they can wing it'. But they have to be this way, Sedution is a dance , you have to do things in a certain time in an certain way and only then will you advance to the next step. Any fear, you are automatically
Fail....


Your best Games includes..., Put on the Frame, good Body Language, good Vocal, witty ****y-funny, dress to impress, and ...come out there like YOUR READY TO PLAY...you come with your game face


. With women, ITs all OR Nothing. Its either you come to the field LIKE YOU MEAN IT..OR you know what your doing is just practicing ....ANyway less than your best effort is just masturbating your time and your mental energy thinking about what you did wrong.
Yeah,Now this is what I like to see. I can describe this post in one word:

PERFECTION.
 

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I will just add to this saying..

that there will come a point, that when your with your girl on a first date or on a sarge.

nothing that happens, will throw you off, you will know how to act ..nothing she will say will throw you off, because you will know what to say back..is this a ****test, is this one that i need to come back witty style and take it down..

but to be this good, takes experience and overtime that is the sign of a good DJ...nothing can stop him...that is the level of game one should try to bring..that is alsot the sign of a true alpha/PUA
 

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I agree.

I really value inner game and being laid back. The idea of just "BEING" and not "doing". But you STILL need to open your fvcking mouth. You gotta be "proactive". You gotta make some move on some level, and yes, you gotta bring your BEST out. Otherwise, unless you really have WAY too much value than the girl has, you are not gonna make any impression.

Few would really know, recognise and value the President, had he not fought for the president's seat.
 

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I feel in the beginning you need this mentality, but after awhile pick up should be a laid back non issue. Gaming should be for fun, we are not running at a machine gun bunker or anything. Naturals do not take gaming this seriously.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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here is an analogy to the animal kingdom
A thousand deer will pass by him, but
when a loin seeks its prey and goes in for the attack...

does it stop mid-way in the attack and stop and think to itself "fcck, this I wonder IF I can kill this deer ?fcck I have these powerful fangs, but I am just doubting whether I can kill this puny deer with whiskers? ...its too much effort I think I will just go and settle for the puny rabbits over there".. you know that shyt ain't happen because 1) If he did that, he wouldn't eat tonight, the deer would run away and 2). you see...what kind of alpha loin would he be, if he only settled for the rabbits? When the loin strikes, and makes it decision, thats it It goes in ....because an alpha loins is the competitor who knows that no one turns him down. He has that belief in stilled in from the genes of his fore-fathers. If he didn't , that would mean hes a beta, who deserves eating rabbits and he will die
 
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When you pick up a girl, you don't think about success or failure. Its in your nature to do it. Your games are natural, and every men's games are different.

You learned, and you move on to the next, no matter what the outcome is, there is nothing to lose nothing to win either.

-Chuchu
 

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mackdaddy27 said:
here is an analogy to the animal kingdom

when a loin seeks its prey and goes in for the attack...

does it stop mid-way in the attack and stop and think to itself "fcck, this I wonder IF I can kill this deer ?fcck I have these powerful fangs, but I am just doubting whether I can kill this puny deer with whiskers? ...its too much effort I think I will just go and settle for the puny rabbits over there".. you know that shyt ain't happen because 1) . you see...what kind of alpha loin would he be, if he only settled for the rabbits? When the loin strikes, and makes it decision, thats it It goes in ....because an alpha loins is the competitor who knows that no one turns him down. He has that belief in stilled in from the genes of his fore-fathers. If he didn't , that would mean hes a beta, who deserves eating rabbits and he will die
Yup. That's pretty much what you gotta do. And whenever I get into that frame, I do much better.

But ALWAYS have a 'bit' of a smile too, you don't ACTUALLY wanna eat her. lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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