With great power comes great responsibility i need guidance on this. I could lose....

[thelonewolflegend]

I met a girl at wrestling show and I was attracted to her and went up to her and approached and talked to her and then I asked to have a drink sometime with her she said I dont know maybe gave me her number. I texted her today did NOT expect a text right away (shes a quick multiple texter) and asking me questions and then i didnt reply once for like ten minuts she asks did i turn you away from work or something? I just said that i was and just kidding and told her to dont worry im not gonna be by my phone all the time because i am doing stuff so it is a weird situation for me. IVE ALWAYS BEEN CHASER so I dont know how to handle this property I NEED ADVICE I feel I can really be in a pretty sweet spot but also maybe have her lose interest if I dont play this right. I was thinking just call her tuesday talk for a little bit and ask her to come over for wrestling party sunday. How often would you text or call this girl she is 6 years older then me and I am little unsure how to go about the situation properly to have her possibly be a girlfriend I dont want to ruin it. Thanks

 

[Peña]

Do not get too far ahead of yourself thinkng she is a girlfriend. Just reply to her if she texts you and call on Tuesday like you planned. I would go out for a drink with her first before you invite to a party. You want to get her alone to have the chemistry not in a group setting with other people hanging around. Go for a date alone with her man. Good luck.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

Thank you. Now I didnt want to seem way too thirsty about asking her out for drinks again if I just did on saturday so should I just ask her tuesday whats her week like or ask her for drinks next week?

 

[Obsidian]

Drinks are fine. Other things are dinner, hiking, dancing, coffee. You can probably imagine others. Just pick something that you're at least a little bit interested in. Make it fun for yourself.

Respond to her texts as needed. If she texts something that doesn't necessarily require a response, feel free not to respond.

"I'm not real big on phones"
"I'm not real big on texts"
"I don't always keep my phone on me"
"I really like to talk to people in person"

^These are phrases that you can use if she confronts you on your behavior.

I started dating a textaholic, kinda clingy girl recently so I know the feeling.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

Point is i just met her friday night and i asked her go out for drinks she said i dont know maybe and now on texts she acts like were dating its weird man.

When can i ask her to meet for drinks again? This or next week

 

[thelonewolflegend]

Telling you though guys this site and being my own man has done me wonders i look back and see its hard to believe that you psychologicly be a man to her and she sticks to you like glue wow

 

[Obsidian]

Just say "Let's meet up and do [insert date idea]. I'm available on ***day or ***day." The message can be send by text or phone.

Whether she accepts or not, you need to keep texting minimal.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

ok the only thing is im reading a ebook manual and it says that you need to just hint at it not be overtly ask and be somewhat subtle so its not so obvious and just kind of include in conversation?? how do you go about that

 

[thelonewolflegend]

Ok my question i have though is i only meet her friday and talked to her for 10 minutes and asked if she would have a drink sometime and she said, i dont know maybe and now we just texted l last night for a little. Does it look thirsty if i asked again right away tomorrow? (i now i madr le rookie mistakes on approach but i didnt know and i was nervous i also just got the number and walked off which obviously looked awkward a little)