With all your heartbreak

[backseatjuan]

Would you please look back and realize no woman is like your bros on sosuave? They come and go like slts, isn’t that truth? Then who do you trist then? Advice on site or the chosen poor little tjing with vagina?

 

[Epic Days]

There are some advices on SS or some mind sets on SS that will sink you as well.

Last night I watched the Jeff Dunham biography. He finally, after a lot of working like a dog and being a “good man”, finally when he risked all on a gamble and made it big. I noticed that he was divorced raped after his gamble paid off and he made it big. He was wrecked. Cancelled a few shows. His daughters would call him crying because mom wanted a divorce now.

The world takes advantage of programmed, hard working men. It’s smart to be aware of this world.

 

[Serenity]

Would you please look back and realize no woman is like your bros on sosuave?

I'm happy they aren't, I probably wouldn't stand them for long if they were like my fake internet friends.

They come and go like slts, isn’t that truth?

How long does it take for them to go? It's been 4 years, she's still very much into me or should I say I'm very much into her

Then who do you trist then? Advice on site or the chosen poor little tjing with vagina?

False dilemma, I trust myself.

 

[Epic Days]

How long does it take for them to go? It's been 4 years, she's still very much into me or should I say I'm very much into her

Ask her to do a polygraph with you before the wedding. Sell it. Tell her how much fun that will be. She’s never even kissed another guy. Right?

 

[backseatjuan]

False dilemma, I trust myself.

You have posted the problem that most dudes here suffer from.

The solution is simple, trus advice on this site and forget the hoes.)))))))

Ask her to do a polygraph with you before the wedding.

Let me tell you man, polygraph is old technology. Todate there is wiretapping.))))) there os an app called reptilicus if you want to hear more message me. You install in on phone and know everything that btch does —- as mich as called ng her number and hearing background noise —- is she fcking?

 

[Serenity]

Ask her to do a polygraph with you before the wedding. Sell it. Tell her how much fun that will be. She’s never even kissed another guy. Right?

She sucks at lying, she's as transparent as a pane of glass. You're not going to believe me anyways, because it's not what you wish to believe. You're just making wild guesses dude, making a fool of yourself.

You have posted the problem that most dudes here suffer from.

The solution is simple, trus advice on this site and forget the hoes.)))))))

Trusting anything on the internet is unimaginably stupid. There once was a time where this forum wanted other guys to think for themselves. Nowadays you're all just trying to push your own ideals of perfection. I'd say I disagree with about 60-70% of the mindsets present on this forum, including yours.

Do you really want to help guys or do you just want to mould others in your image while pretending that you care?

 

[backseatjuan]

Do you really want to help guys or do you just want to mould others in your image while pretending that you care?

I want to help guys by molding them to haivng several otpions and don't sweating over that one. Becuase man, htis is Don Juan forums, and Don Juans don't have just one, they have several.

I mean.....

Am I wrong?

 

[Murk]

Some of us have lives outside the internet and women.

SS is just another option I always go to friends and family for my real life issues as they know my situation and are not trying to score points on a forum. I suggest you do the same.

 

[AJ84]

She sucks at lying, she's as transparent as a pane of glass. You're not going to believe me anyways, because it's not what you wish to believe. You're just making wild guesses dude, making a fool of yourself.


Trusting anything on the internet is unimaginably stupid. There once was a time where this forum wanted other guys to think for themselves. Nowadays you're all just trying to push your own ideals of perfection. I'd say I disagree with about 60-70% of the mindsets present on this forum, including yours.

Do you really want to help guys or do you just want to mould others in your image while pretending that you care?

The second a member starts insulting and name calling when someone politely disagrees or even asks for clarification or more information, it’s clear what that member’s intentions are. I often find its them trying to convince themselves of a self soothing view, then looking for others to validate it. You hit the nail on the head. It won’t matter what you say.

 

[Epic Days]

She sucks at lying, she's as transparent as a pane of glass. You're not going to believe me anyways, because it's not what you wish to believe. You're just making wild guesses dude, making a fool of yourself.

Who said I was doubting you. I didn’t guess at anything.
I didn’t mean to hit a nerve. But I did notice that the idea isn’t something you want to broach with her.
We vet people we hire through references and sometimes even a polygraph like peace officers and upper echelon positions at Fortune 500 companies as a condition of employment. I do random drug tests and background checks all the time as a condition of employment.

I can see the rampage now. Lol. Yet she will allow a background check for a great job. Women do background checks on men all the time. Yet men are conditioned not to do this. Social conventions are very feminine oriented.

“Is that what you think of me?”
“Apparently I made the wrong choice in men.”
“How could you even think about that with me.”
“That’s no way to start off our married life. I didn’t know you were so controlling.”

I’m sure she’s a lovely woman and I’m way off base. You found a woman in the top shelf 2%. I get it.

 

[Serenity]

I want to help guys by molding them to haivng several otpions and don't sweating over that one. Becuase man, htis is Don Juan forums, and Don Juans don't have just one, they have several.

I mean.....

Am I wrong?

Yes and no. Nothing wrong with just one, it's the unhealthy attachment many guys have to that "one" that's problematic. A sort of addiction which will make a guy sell his soul to keep that one.

Then there's guys like me. I would prefer my relationship to continue as good as it has for 4 years, but if it doesn't then I have no problem walking away. I am in fact not sweating over that one, as it should be when you find proper wife material.

You don't need to burn through tens, hundreds or more women. You may if you want though.

I don't care whether guys here are looking for a woman or want to just hook up with several women. I'm fine with guys who doesn't want the same as what I want, that choice is theirs. I'll assist in both choices, but obviously I have more recent experience with relationship so my advice is better used on guys who want that.

 

[Serenity]

I didn’t mean to hit a nerve. But I did notice that the idea isn’t something you want to broach with her.

I was very tired when I replied, I'm grumpy when I'm tired. But yeah, I have no reason to doubt her. I know it's easy to be blinded and biased by someone I love, to overlook small things that should alert me. I used to be naive like that before, until my mother drove away my last stepfather and with nobody to abuse she targeted me. On the bad side it was a horrible experience, on the good side I came out of it equipped with a lot of skills most people (luckily) don't have the opportunity to learn in practice. I became very good at reading people, because I had to do it to survive.

She was a virgin when I met her. Of course you're thinking "yeah right!", but you'd probably see that it was true if you were me. When first did start having sex I had to guide her, she clearly had nothing more than a basic idea of how to have good sex. Then there's her overall personality, she's reserved and a bit shy in larger groups. She didn't tell me she was a virgin, I figured that out by reading her through our interactions. I had the evidence before I asked her and she confirmed my observations.

I wouldn't take "I'm a virgin" at face value, I need to see that everything else is congruent with that statement.

I wonder if asking for a polygraph test would even hurt her perception of me, like we would have such a disconnect that I would need a machine to read her because I lost my ability. There's also the implied lack of trust in asking for such a thing, not something I would want to be brought up later and potentially used against me. Anyways, I don't need it.

I’m sure she’s a lovely woman and I’m way off base. You found a woman in the top shelf 2%. I get it.

I genuinely love her, she's great. If anything she's not selfish enough. She could be a little more selfish actually, she blames herself before others, often when she deserves no blame at all.

 

[Epic Days]

I was very tired when I replied, I'm grumpy when I'm tired. But yeah, I have no reason to doubt her. I know it's easy to be blinded and biased by someone I love, to overlook small things that should alert me. I used to be naive like that before, until my mother drove away my last stepfather and with nobody to abuse she targeted me. On the bad side it was a horrible experience, on the good side I came out of it equipped with a lot of skills most people (luckily) don't have the opportunity to learn in practice. I became very good at reading people, because I had to do it to survive.

She was a virgin when I met her. Of course you're thinking "yeah right!", but you'd probably see that it was true if you were me. When first did start having sex I had to guide her, she clearly had nothing more than a basic idea of how to have good sex. Then there's her overall personality, she's reserved and a bit shy in larger groups. She didn't tell me she was a virgin, I figured that out by reading her through our interactions. I had the evidence before I asked her and she confirmed my observations.

I wouldn't take "I'm a virgin" at face value, I need to see that everything else is congruent with that statement.

I wonder if asking for a polygraph test would even hurt her perception of me, like we would have such a disconnect that I would need a machine to read her because I lost my ability. There's also the implied lack of trust in asking for such a thing, not something I would want to be brought up later and potentially used against me. Anyways, I don't need it.


I genuinely love her, she's great. If anything she's not selfish enough. She could be a little more selfish actually, she blames herself before others, often when she deserves no blame at all.

There are virgins around. I have no business saying she wasn’t as I don’t have a clue if she was or wasn’t.

 

[kbbroiler1971]

Would you please look back and realize no woman is like your bros on sosuave? They come and go like slts, isn’t that truth? Then who do you trist then? Advice on site or the chosen poor little tjing with vagina?

Okay for me I do not trust women with their word ever. Women have no morals and have no ethics. These are men traits. Women are quick to go on to the next big thing what they see in their minds and will have no problem doing this. That's not having morals or ethics. So at the end of the day, I do not believe their story. Their story could be as dark as being abused. Bill Burr said ass kickings just don't fall out of the sky.