"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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With all these looks threads....

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BoredDude

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These forums are mostly used by guys and to guys looks matter a lot, so therefore when we think about ourselves being attractive we think it's all about looks.
 

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BoredDude said:
These forums are mostly used by guys and to guys looks matter a lot, so therefore when we think about ourselves being attractive we think it's all about looks.
ALDARIS REPS for you :yes:

girl does not equal boy. girl is not attracted to what boy is attracted to. remember that.

most on this board sound like a bunch of amped up homosexuals. if girls were like boys then all you guys would be doing is banging non-stop 24/7. kinda like many gay boys do.
 

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aldaris said:
ALDARIS REPS for you :yes:

girl does not equal boy. girl is not attracted to what boy is attracted to. remember that.

most on this board sound like a bunch of amped up homosexuals. if girls were like boys then all you guys would be doing is banging non-stop 24/7. kinda like many gay boys do.

Certain people LOVE to feel sorry for themselves about their looks, despite the MANY non-surgical and surgical options that are out there.

Name any part of the body or face that is unattractive or just average and there is a surgery that can correct it and make it attractive.

Certain people WILL ALWAYS look for an excuse to continue to wallow in self-pity.

For example....

"Well, I can't afford cosmetic surgery or Orthdontic treatment." Yet these same people will take multiple vacations, buy a $25,000 car and eat out 3X a week.

If you truly can't afford it, you go out and get a second job if you want to fix something.

You can also finance cosmetic surgery like you finance a car or education.

In example...

For a guy who has an unattractive nose or any other facial imbalance that kills his confidence in himself.

He can do ONE ot TWO things:



a.) Feel sorry for himself and get angry at his genetics.

OR GO OUT AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.


b.) Spend the $7,000-$10,000 to correct the problem that has PERMANENT results.

Most people choose the former so they can always say "Poor me".

Point is, Don't feel sorry for people who did not win the genetic lottery, they can always buy good-looks.
 

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Don't wish it were easier, wish you were better.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Don't wish it were easier, wish you were better.
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