"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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With all these looks threads....

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BoredDude

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These forums are mostly used by guys and to guys looks matter a lot, so therefore when we think about ourselves being attractive we think it's all about looks.
 

aldaris

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BoredDude said:
These forums are mostly used by guys and to guys looks matter a lot, so therefore when we think about ourselves being attractive we think it's all about looks.
ALDARIS REPS for you :yes:

girl does not equal boy. girl is not attracted to what boy is attracted to. remember that.

most on this board sound like a bunch of amped up homosexuals. if girls were like boys then all you guys would be doing is banging non-stop 24/7. kinda like many gay boys do.
 

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aldaris said:
ALDARIS REPS for you :yes:

girl does not equal boy. girl is not attracted to what boy is attracted to. remember that.

most on this board sound like a bunch of amped up homosexuals. if girls were like boys then all you guys would be doing is banging non-stop 24/7. kinda like many gay boys do.

Certain people LOVE to feel sorry for themselves about their looks, despite the MANY non-surgical and surgical options that are out there.

Name any part of the body or face that is unattractive or just average and there is a surgery that can correct it and make it attractive.

Certain people WILL ALWAYS look for an excuse to continue to wallow in self-pity.

For example....

"Well, I can't afford cosmetic surgery or Orthdontic treatment." Yet these same people will take multiple vacations, buy a $25,000 car and eat out 3X a week.

If you truly can't afford it, you go out and get a second job if you want to fix something.

You can also finance cosmetic surgery like you finance a car or education.

In example...

For a guy who has an unattractive nose or any other facial imbalance that kills his confidence in himself.

He can do ONE ot TWO things:



a.) Feel sorry for himself and get angry at his genetics.

OR GO OUT AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.


b.) Spend the $7,000-$10,000 to correct the problem that has PERMANENT results.

Most people choose the former so they can always say "Poor me".

Point is, Don't feel sorry for people who did not win the genetic lottery, they can always buy good-looks.
 

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Don't wish it were easier, wish you were better.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Don't wish it were easier, wish you were better.
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