"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wish me Luck :D

kizza

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Met this girl at a saturday school about a month ago. We been chatting loads, but not met up yet. We restart the school 2moro and its time for me to apply what I've learnt in the last month (only found this site after i first met her).

I hope it goes well and I'm sure it will be fun. I'll tell u guys how it goes.

I'll see her in about 12 hrs, but if someone can reply before then it would be cool.

Atm my ideas are to apply lots of kino and C+F.

Thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ChrizZ

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My advice: Be calm and don´t show her that you are excited to see her, but be nice to her. Talk to her a lot and don´t force C&F. The key is to be calm and keep the conversation going and then use C&F when it´s appropriate. The most important thing however is to have fun and don´t focus on her too much.
Good luck man ;)
 

Messarger

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Use C&F only when its appropriate. Remember, its suppose to be the spice, not the substance. And apart from being clam like what ChrizZ mentioned, avoid talking about school, family and boring stuff like that. Fasion, culture, history, and the girl herself are much more fun topics to talk about.
 

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Nice going. Just chill with her and see if you can get some light kino in( touching hair is usually a good indicator). Good luck and post how it goes!
 

kizza

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Thanks guys, just got back... It didn't go bad, but there was anything there to go wrong :p

What I mean is that during the break - where we'd normally meet - her teacher let her out late, so we didn't get to talk. There's always next week. I'm sure I'll be fine.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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