"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wish me luck bros! Going out with girl, aiming for first kiss!

spax

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Ey guys,

Wish me luck for me getting my first kiss tonight. Movies with a girl.

Hopefully ill be able to summon the courage of an ALPHA DJ and report back later.

Thanks for the help guys. :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Joe The Homophobe

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Good luck! don't be afraid and the moment you see her use kino. Although you shouldn't be putting too much pressure on yourself, focus on being fun/having fun and if the kiss comes so be it. Don't make that the only thing on your mind.
 

Yookiwooki

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Great job getting to this point man!

It bears repeating that the kiss should not be the first physical contact you have with her. Make sure that you're using kino the moment you meet her like Joe said. Before you even kiss her, you should be already getting pretty sexual with her.

Just let go and relax; she obviously likes you and wants to spend time with you. Let us know how it goes too, k? :)
 

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I just had mine a last saturday. All I gotta say that being drunk makes things a hell of a lot easier.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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