"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wt_firefighter

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In a previous thread I had talked about how picky I am when it comes to women. I think a lot has to do with the fact that I want my future children to have good genes. For instance there is a girl in my class who is really cute, think Carrie Underwood cute. I have talked to her a couple of times and she seems like a fun girl to hang out with. The problem is that she is five feet exactly and I am above six feet. I can’t bring my self to ask her on a date because of her height. Does any one else think about what their future children might look like when they date a girl.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nope I never think of having kids :D

Personally Im quite partial to petite women though.

You're planning and overthinking waaay into the future before youve even asked her out?


Wrong mindset bro.
 

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True that.

Just take her out and discover if there's anything there for you or not.
 

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If you aren't attracted to her because of her height then don't settle. There are millions of girls out there. Don't limit yourself.
 
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