"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wt_firefighter

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In a previous thread I had talked about how picky I am when it comes to women. I think a lot has to do with the fact that I want my future children to have good genes. For instance there is a girl in my class who is really cute, think Carrie Underwood cute. I have talked to her a couple of times and she seems like a fun girl to hang out with. The problem is that she is five feet exactly and I am above six feet. I can’t bring my self to ask her on a date because of her height. Does any one else think about what their future children might look like when they date a girl.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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nope I never think of having kids :D

Personally Im quite partial to petite women though.

You're planning and overthinking waaay into the future before youve even asked her out?


Wrong mindset bro.
 

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True that.

Just take her out and discover if there's anything there for you or not.
 

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If you aren't attracted to her because of her height then don't settle. There are millions of girls out there. Don't limit yourself.
 
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