Wish I could help my buddy...He'd never listen

[Stugots26]

So my friend is this total nice guy whose last girlfriend was kind of "blah" about him and mistreated him.

Enter this blonde who's pretty hot and goes to grad school with him and totally love-bombed him. I think she may be a wackadoodle bible-thumper a little bit. FOUR to FIVE MONTHS after they started dating, she made a YouTube video proposing that he propose marriage and got his family members and roommate involved. Basically an ambush designed to pressure him into marriage on her timetable. Now the wedding is in September of this year and he's moving to her hometown after they graduate with no job prospects, and he's too much of a nice guy to admit whether he wants to actually move or not.

I wish he'd listen to reason and be objective about this, and understand this is way too fast and she's completely nuts if she thinks this is normal, but what's a guy to do? I've tried to be happy for him and kept my mouth shut, just reminded him to do what he wanted to do. It just sucks, wish he knew better...

 

[BetterCallSaul]

As a friend, all you can do is offer the advice you just posted here. He either listens or doesn't. If sh!t gets bad in a couple years, well, you tried to warn him.

 

[Between_The_Lines]

One of the best things you can do is to get him the best fleshlight money can buy. If The Dictatoresse doesn't get her hands on it (no pun) and trash it, you'll be hearing from him about what an amazing, prophetic friend you are in a few years once the sex completely runs dry.

 

[Dgwizdal]

Really hard to force this stuff down peoples throats without coming off as a complete d!ck. People won't open their eyes unless they want to. I'd tell him what the deal is 1 time and be done with it. And even then, he ain't going to listen...

Bright side of this is - once this goes to sh!t and he starts to want to get over his AFC depression of the aftermath, he'll listen to anything and everything the red pill is gana teach him.

 

[Between_The_Lines]

Bright side of this is - once this goes to sh!t and he starts to want to get over his AFC depression of the aftermath, he'll listen to anything and everything the red pill is gana teach him.

That's assuming it dawns on him before he gets hitched, but more so before she puts one in the oven. He's probably used to this sort of maltreatment and even expects it. Many criminal repeat offenders will tell you that doing the time is "easy" when asked why they keep landing in jail. Getting their act together is too much work. That's probably OPs buddy in a nutshell. His conditioning runs deep.

 

[G_Govan]

I've seen this many times.

It's no use saying anything unless they come to you complaining or asking for advice.

Your words are no match for the strength of her p-ssy versus his thirst.

 

[Cloudtopsun2100]

ya dude will not listen to you as long as he gets access to what she has -- set aside a sofa for him when they divorce and he gets kicked out and has to stay at your pad for a month to get back on his feet.

 

[BrainDamage92]

Get a load of this bitcch :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: This kinda proves that its all our fault in the end. If we, men, didnt allow that **** they wouldnt pull it.