wise to show your "soft" side to a women?

[zorg198]

Hello,

Is it good to show your "soft " side to a women? i mean show her you love movies regarding love and so on... and calm music and so on? i am not a touchy guy but i also have this part in me . the question is , is it good to show it or i should keep it to myself.

 

[sighsigh]

Only as long as you make up for it with masculine stuff.

 

[bigneil]

Don't show her your soft side intentionally. It will happen on it's own and it's a big test for her. Chances are, one glimpse of it and she'll dump you forever.

 

[coochieman]

Little. Very little.

A macho-biased-balanced is necessary. Keep it manly, man!

 

[PapiChulo]

You can be masculine and refined at the same time. Be sentual and gentle, yet manly, thats exactly the kida combination that could give the chick a bonner. For example, I am seeing a nice girl who says she is gonna tie me up to the bed. It's an instant bonner for me. Or a hooker with a Phd - instant bonner.

 

[Jariel]

I think soft is never good, or maybe just a bad choice of word, but I do think it's ok to show a woman a romantic and warm side. In fact, in recent times (since dropping my defences) I've found it goes a long way with many women.

Women love a guy they can cuddle upto and feel safe with. But like Papichulo said, you have to be masculine too.

 

[bigneil]

Girls love romance... AFTER you make them come (and there is a 3-4 week shelf life per orgasm).

 

[Mr Wright]

Yeah show her your more humane side because if shes investing emotionally in you, she wants something in return...in other words, she wants to know you wont run away and you showing a soft side is return for her investment. Dont over do it but just do something selfless or share something every now and then.