"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wisdom tooth removal

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I just had a wisdom tooth removed this morning at around 11:30 and it is still bleeding pretty bad to were the gauzes are covered with blood 5 hours later. Is this an excessive amount or normal?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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After 5 hours I would say that is still pretty normal. I had 4 removed a month ago and I think I bled for like 4 hours, but afterwards I would wake up with small amounts of blood in my month for like the next 2 weeks. If it's still bleeding noticibly tomorrow morning, then I would probably call your dentist.
 

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I had one moved (not smart) as well before I got all them removed. Mine bled enormously for about 2 days and I had to call the dentist. He kept telling me it'll be alright but to put tea bags where it's bleeding. I'd call the dentist too if it keeps bleeding after 5-6 more hours.
 

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put in a new gauze and then bite down. keep the pressure on it. stop talking and moving the gauze around. dont eat or drink anything for an hour.

then you can eat soft things, but do not drink out of a straw or smoke or brush your teeth or rinse yet.

you can brush softly and use salt water rinse tommorrow. you can smoke and use a straw in like five days.

take your pain meds and go to bed and hopefully the bleeding will stop soon.

if it is still excessive by this evening, call the dentist.
 

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I had two pulled last year as one was compacted but didn't have to use the extra gauzes the dentist gave me for any large amounts of bleeding.

I was given the instructions to rise my mouth with a salt and water mixture to prevent dry socket which is a painful condition if it occurs so I hope the dentist or assistant mentioned the salt and water wash mixture after each meal to you if your able to eat.

I was also told small pieces of tooth may surface as the socket heals over time but I didn't have that problem either.

If your really concerned call your dentist.

Hope this helps.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I see Penkitten had already mentioned the salt and water rinse something that is really important to prevent the dry socket(s).

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LoneSilver said:
I see Penkitten had already mentioned the salt and water rinse something that is really important to prevent the dry socket(s).

LoneSilver
dry socket is a mutha effer !!
 

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From what I hear it is very painful but treatable and surprisingly dentist and their assistants fail to mention the salt and water wash during the healing process.

LoneSilver :)


penkitten said:
dry socket is a mutha effer !!
 

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I can feel my wisdom teeth with my tongue... but I don't want to get them pulled !!
 

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I know for years the dentist would show me the X-ray of my impacted wisdom tooth the lower one and recommended to have this extracted. At the time it wasn't bothering me but it was hard to get back there to clean and it not being all the way in or out I had to make sure to floss so food didn't get caught.

Long story short 10 years later I wake up with a annoying tooth ache and it was the impacted one giving me the headache so having the lower left side extracted the dentist just took the upper on that side out. I still have my other two which are completely in.

Personally, I don't believe there is a law that says you must have your wisdoms taken out that is if they are all the way in. I would leave them and not worry about it which that was my plan except the one impacted one started hurting and that screwed that plan up ;) but all is good now.

Not sure if anyone else here has this but I still have a baby tooth.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Please Do Salt Water Rinse. Very Important.

I had all 4 of mines removed 7 months ago. I say its normal. I bled for about 6 hours using up the extra gauze and you wake up with small amounts over a period of a week. Enjoy the experience bro
 

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wisdom teeth dont always have to be removed, its just that most ppl dont have room in their jaws for them and others are impacted. mine came in just fine and i never realised they were there until they decayed. my dentist said that wisdom teeth decay really fast, so he pulled them and i never had a problem.
i have had other back teeth pulled that left little pieces inside but they dont bother me now.
 
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