"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Winter = LTR time, Spring/Summer = Hookup Time?

gravityeyelids

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My perception is that when fall/winter come around, people tend to settle down into relationships. And then when the nice weather comes around, people get all ornery and hornery and there's a lot more people that become single.

Do you think it's easier to get laid in the spring/summer?

Do you think girls are sleazier in the spring/summer?

Do you think more girls are single and ready to mingle in the summer?

I know for me personally...winter is such a downer. I live in the north so the weather is terrible. I basically get seasonal depression. There's nothing worse than looking outside and seeing it overcast and snowy for the 24th day in a row and knowing you have to go out in 15 degree weather and put all these fvcking clothes on and scrape snow off your car and all that jazz..I'm so sick of it up to this point.

In the winter:
Everyone's tan goes away so people look less sexy...
People are either bulking or slacking on their working out so they dont look as good...
Girls dont even bother shaving their legs unless they're getting fvcked regularly....
Everyone is dressed up in layers of clothes so theres little to see (aside from yoga pants)...
People don't go out and party as much because it's just too damn cold.

But HOLY HELL, when that sun comes out, it seems like both me and the college campus i'm on come to fvcking LIFE! That sunshine and warm weather is like a shot of straight adrenaline.

For me personally: Girls put on those rediculously sexy miniskirts and tight tight tops...They get all nice and tan and do their hair....i'm in heat CONSTANTLY, in the summer these girls walking around drive me NUTS. I start getting a good tan, workout even more than in the winter, start cutting season so i get nice and shreaded for the beach...i want to day drink and grill out and go for a run and go find girls...i want to randomly talk to girls on campus JUST because the sun is out...i want to revamp my wardrobe and get motivated to improve myself and meet people..... and it seems like everyone is both in a better mood and hornier. People seem to party more and dont have to bundle up in all these clothes...so girls walk to the parties in those wonderful..Godforsaken.. skirts (i have a thing for tight skirts. Sue me).

This is more of a rambling than a question. And i certainly believe it's more true for us northerners than lucky LA people. But i think there's some truth to it. Thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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fuko2007

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Yes, people tend to be more reclusive in the winter and tend to get into relationships more often. Now in the summer is when you see all the college girls come out mainly single ones. I live near a big lake and am on it mostly every weekend during the summer. Im tan and in decent shape by then. But im not looking for a relationship in the summer. Just a hook up mostly. And most girls ive been with are the same. There are more things you can do in the summer so why be tied down?
 

Johnny Alias

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It's true... but don't use it as an excuse to not get out there...

I like to balance it out with four things:
1) Gym. Go get shredded. Then when spring hits you won't be playing catchup.

2) Travel. Get away from the cold. I save up all my vacation days for winter. It's good to get out of the wasteland and hit Mexico or anywhere warm.

3) Personal Growth. Read the DJ Bible. Read books. Work on projects. Work on your living space. Keeps you busy.

4) Keep dating. I've banged 4 chicks this winter. Remember that the ones that didn't settle into a relationship before the snows set in are LONELY.

It can be hard once in a while... especially if you're getting over an ex like me... but if you don't stay busy somehow you will writhe in self pity during the cold times...

I took this chick out last night. GOD almighty she's got a body on her. Met her last week at a bar with some mutual friends... It is always possible...
 

MillionBillionaire

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I live in MN ... It has been the worst winter ever in history this year. We are talking -20 degrees... more than a foot of snow.. for days upon days...

I discovered SS and the bible this Dec. and I am dying!! to get out there and see some skin!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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skinnyguy

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Women fvck like animals in the summer. Best time to approach. Most clubs are 50% more full then. Go on vacation to exotic places and you will score
 
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