Winks

[Jeremymichael]

Does anyone else find it really attractive?.

I've had girls wink at me in the past and I really like it. I wonder if this is something you can practice or does it come naturally?. It can be really sexy or can be sign of empathy.

I think if I tried it it would come off wrong and I would probably end up look like Quasimodo. I think I'm going to work on this.

 

[Tazman]

The wink is a sheer sign of interest, it has only been used on me by women who wanted "something" to happen.

It's probably one of the easiest ways to let a woman know you like her. Don't think about "how" you're doing it, just do it with a smirk, grin or smile.

 

[amoka]

A girl used to wink at me all the time. We used to flirt with each other, although she was married. There is no harm in winking. Simply wink back with a smile...

 

[AGBourne]

I think winks are an awesome way to flirt. They are not used enough and could be very powerful.

Another great way I often get positive response is playfully stick my tongue at her like a kid. Instant ice breaker.

 

[edger]

Does anyone else find it really attractive?.

I've had girls wink at me in the past and I really like it. I wonder if this is something you can practice or does it come naturally?. It can be really sexy or can be sign of empathy.

I think if I tried it it would come off wrong and I would probably end up look like Quasimodo. I think I'm going to work on this.

I'd use "winks" as openers, I actually think they're a great way to break the ice when you're out there, but I just can't get past the fact that it seems so overdone(1950's) and unoriginal, which makes it seem corny. I just crack the smile or just gaze at her(of course not in a creepy way though). By the way, I've just started with the "smiling". It's not something I ever used to do.

 

[Tazman]

but I just can't get past the fact that it seems so overdone(1950's) and unoriginal, which makes it seem corny.

Really? I don't know, I never thought about winking that way. It's like smiling and saying hello, it never really has an expiration date. It's simply an opener that leads to more direct communication, then you've got plenty of room to be "original".