"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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gruby

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I picked up this trick while on a photo shoot watching one of teh models interacting with people around. For whatever reason she would (almost nota able to help it) wink at teh person she talked to (you know one eye only). For that metter at first i though she's flirting with me untill i saw she did the same thing to a female assistant.

Then i remember a few months back i walked pass the girl from one of my classes (ok looking) and because i was in really good mood i winked at her just like that for no reason. She was all over me for teh next 2 weeks (untill i screwed things up by talking too much).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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biker_gixxer

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Originally posted by gruby
She was all over me for teh next 2 weeks (untill i screwed things up by talking too much).
haha. gotta love it when you come across a guy that knows where he messed up.
 

Kourt

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I winked at a girl once, she burst out laughing, apparently I looked like an idiot :rolleyes:
 
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