"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wingmen! New Jersey, New York, NYC

Stazzi

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WHAT'S UP.

I live in Hoboken and I'm in the city every weekend. Let me know when this is going down.

Stazz
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ok so here's what I'm thinking. City without a doubt is the meeting place. I figure we meet at Penn Station, since that's most likely a central place. The meeting time will be 7:45pm.

Here's the stats and I will be making a new thread for this.

Date: June 3, 2006-Saturday
Time: 7:45pm
Meeting Spot: Penn Station (I'll have an exact meeting spot in Penn in my new thread)
Requirements: 18 years or older (or bring a damn good fake ID for clubs)
What were doing: I figure we all meet up first. Introduce ourselves, walk around the city for an hour, just hanging out, getting food, meeting people etc. Then as a group, we can decide which club (has to be 18+ for our younger guys) we hit up. Or if anyone has ideas on lounges, bars (that don't id), or other activities we can do that. Most likely it will be a club scene so dress approprietly.
 
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