"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Wingman tips?

T-Roy

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Hey there! I was just wondering... I guess I'm pretty good with girls as out of all my guy friends I've had a lot more girl friends and I get along with girls better then guys. But the thing is, my best friend is pretty bad with them or gets stuck with the needy clingy ones. I've given him this site and it's helping a little but I want to know how to be a good wingman for him.

A lot of the times I try helping him the girls end up falling for me. No matter how I act. He's not very charismatic or that kind of thing, but I'd like to know if there is any thing I can do.

So to all the master wingmen out there... Help me help him!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I thought that was just for looking for wingmen.
 
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