“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Wingman Qualities

drmeathead

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I think that being a good DJ is having a good wingman and in fairness being a good wingman. What are some qualities of a goodwing man? Ill start with a few.


1.Being able to entertain (distract) the potential ****block so the PUA has a chance to get moving.

2. Buy a round of drinks for the DJ, his HB, yourself and the CB. This makes the DJ look like the man if people bring drinks over.

3. Never ever say anything that would put the DJ down in front of his HB. You can bust balls all you want in between PUAs.

4. Dont be socially retarded.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thefonz

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I think that's pretty important to know.....it is not only the job of the wingman to preoccupy the ****block, but also to accentuate (or exaggerate)the dj's power amongst his peers. Making the dj look important should be a top priority for every wingman. Also, the wingman must also find a way to make himself the center of attention (ie. the jester for lack of a better word). He must carry the bulk of the conversation so the the dj does not have to restort to pickup tactics that will make him seem desperate around the HB. Buying a round of drinks (or just one for him and the dj) will solidify the dj in a girls mind as 'powerful'. Knowing this a wingman should be consider a hero among hero's in the world of djing, he is a truly selfless individual and should be treated with the utmost respect and praise.
 

Mr. Mystery II

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A wingman needs only be able to get his own girls, and not be desparate enough to go after your girls, but there needs to be a respect amoung the two of you that if someone elses girl is interested in the other man, may the better man win without any complaints or jealously among men.

Who buys drinks is not at all important, by buying drinks you show that your not a cheap a$$!

Going out with another guy who can pull women just as good as you is alot more fun than going out with some loser who worships your ground.

Women are much more apt to be interested in a man with cool friends than one with some dork following him around. And your gonna be alot cooler when you got someone you can joke around with, and trade girls with than some fool.

A good wingman is another man like yourself. If you want a good wingman, be a good wingman and they will come out of the woodworks.

Mr. Mystery
 

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Think of a wingman as your assistant, it is best to have a wingman who is currently attached with someone as to remove possible competition, your wingman should also be less attractive than you are but still presentable as a social person.
 
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