"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wingman or No Wingman?

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Don Juan
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Hello again. I read a post by somebody earlier saying that having a Wingman usually shouts "Desperation". I always thought that having a Wingman with you whilst approaching would give you social value, back you up in dodgy situations and also stop you looking like a loner. Those are the reasons why I have a Wingman, also the fact that we give each other motivation as to not look like a coward :) So what are your ideas on Wingmen? Good or bad?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

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Don Juan
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Yeah, at the moment I'm practising on sets that don't have males in, or if they do, then only if it's clear that the guy is not going to be a very Alpha sorta guy (AFC Friend of the girls). So AMOG is not important right now, although I'm not sure if my wingman could deal with an AMOG yet anyway. So it's obvious what the good points are? What are the bad points?

Here is one possible point, although it can be overcome:
If you have a bad wingman, it could reduce your status?
 

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:)

Haha my wing's not an *******, but I was thinking more along the sub-conscious lines anyway. I'll just take it that having a Wing is far better than going lone, with many more benefits than there are negative points. :cheer:
Well I'm glad I've cleared up another part of my game up. I'm out gaming tommorow so I'll need a good night's sleep so I feel awake and energetic. Night all.
 
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