"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wingman or No Wingman?

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Hello again. I read a post by somebody earlier saying that having a Wingman usually shouts "Desperation". I always thought that having a Wingman with you whilst approaching would give you social value, back you up in dodgy situations and also stop you looking like a loner. Those are the reasons why I have a Wingman, also the fact that we give each other motivation as to not look like a coward :) So what are your ideas on Wingmen? Good or bad?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah, at the moment I'm practising on sets that don't have males in, or if they do, then only if it's clear that the guy is not going to be a very Alpha sorta guy (AFC Friend of the girls). So AMOG is not important right now, although I'm not sure if my wingman could deal with an AMOG yet anyway. So it's obvious what the good points are? What are the bad points?

Here is one possible point, although it can be overcome:
If you have a bad wingman, it could reduce your status?
 
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:)

Haha my wing's not an *******, but I was thinking more along the sub-conscious lines anyway. I'll just take it that having a Wing is far better than going lone, with many more benefits than there are negative points. :cheer:
Well I'm glad I've cleared up another part of my game up. I'm out gaming tommorow so I'll need a good night's sleep so I feel awake and energetic. Night all.
 
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