Wingman in San Jose

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

contumacious

New Member

Feb 28, 2011

Greetings.. I am new to this city and in the game about a month..although not a pro..but great in approach.. I am currently improving my skills in building attraction and I am pretty confident about approach and building comfort..

I know my bad points and currently working on it..

I want a wingman who can be a great asset for me and to whom I can be a great asset as well... who understands the wingmanship..

Anyone who is interested...

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.