Wingman in San Jose

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

contumacious

New Member

Feb 28, 2011

Greetings.. I am new to this city and in the game about a month..although not a pro..but great in approach.. I am currently improving my skills in building attraction and I am pretty confident about approach and building comfort..

I know my bad points and currently working on it..

I want a wingman who can be a great asset for me and to whom I can be a great asset as well... who understands the wingmanship..

Anyone who is interested...

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.