RichardTheFrog
Banned
Yesterday, I went to Winghouse and then a strip club.
First, while I was at Winghouse, I was thinking about the ongoing debate on this forum about money versus muscles. This was my first time going out in a while. I realized that BOTH of those things are just on the surface and would only "impress" for a few seconds. To prove this, there were relatively young orbiter guys at the bar and they had muscles. The kind of muscles that it would take over a year to get. Didn't help them get sex.
I think I give off the appearance of being difficult to talk to. I had a hard time starting a conversation at Winghouse because I guess I just wasn't in the mood.
From now on, I will be looking for guys who are successful and figuring out who they are and why they are successful.
An attractive girl on Seeking Arrangement told me about her ex-boyfriend who used to beat her and was an alcoholic and she still wanted to support him because she "saw the good in him" but eventually it just got too much and she left. Luckily, she had an abortion instead of having a baby. Are these the type of guys who are successful? What kind of sense does that make? And it seems like every girl is coming out of some "bad" relationship.
I heard one girl at Winghouse a different time I was there say that her boyfriend drives an SUV and hangs out with his friends a lot. I don't know what to make of that.
Someone once told me that if I have to ask, that I'll never know. (ask what kind of guys hot girls date).
I also noticed that everyone smiles, but everyone is most likely a psycho on the inside. Keep in mind that is my first time out in a while.
Most of the girls that work there are texting or doing something with their phone while bartending. Are they texting their boyfriends? What are they saying? Boring stuff like "I love you," or are they saying stuff like "bring me home some cocaine later" or something like that? I really wish I knew what these girls' social lives are like. Maybe it's not as complicated as I'm thinking that it is. And maybe their boyfriends are not the "Supermen" that I'm imagining them to be.
Sometimes, girls will act in all the "girl ways" that lets you know that she thinks she is the sh1t and that only the best of the best get to be around her... then you'll get up close and she has a fvcking mustache.
Then, I went to the strip club. My first thought was... this place sucks. Why am I even here? It smells like herpes.
I noticed something. A lot of girls in this world are drug addicts. Some beat their children. Some lie. Some cheat. Some steal. Some are dumb as a rock. When you find a girl that has value, all she does is NOT do these bad things. She doesn't necessarily do anything GOOD, she just doesn't do anything horrible. What kind of sense does that make from these people walking around like they are queens and acting like they own the universe? This world is really fvcked up.
I also noticed that they have short attention spans. They can be all into a conversation with you... then 15 minutes later, they'll be entertained by something else.
So I was at strip club drinking beers at the bar by myself. I didn't tip any girls and only 1 girl had even come up to talk to me at that point and I didn't find her attractive. I was thinking to myself "when did I become the creepy guy?" Looking around at all the other guys by themselves looking all creepy and non-social. But THEN.....
I went to the ATM. And I saw about 15 sets of eyes following me. Then I remembered what the whole thing was about. Suddenly, I wasn't "the creepy guy" anymore. Not that anyone else called me creepy, I was just thinking it to myself.
One of the girls came up to me. We started off with the standard introduction. She had a tattoo of an elephant on her arm so I asked something about that. She said it was Ganesh so I asked if she was Hindu. She said that she goes to yoga (later find out she said she TEACHES yoga). She said something about being a member of a yoga commune in the Caribbean. She says that she drives hundreds of miles to strip at this club because the strip clubs in her hometown always want you to suck d1ck when you give dances. These clubs are comparatively tame and even have tape over the nipples. She told me that she was arrested for armed robbery and did time in prison. She said she used to hang out with Haitian guys that would give her cocaine and get her to do robberies. She said she did many, but only got caught once for robbing a McDonald's with a gun. I told her about the time I broke my neck. She thought it was pretty hardcore. Also, somehow we got to talking about the 3d printer I just bought and she thought that was really cool and said she would use it to make dildos and sell them to people if she had one.
I remember going to strip clubs years ago and the girls would say that all it would take is one rich guy to come in there and like them and it would change their life and they could stop. As bad as the armed robber girl was, there were some SUPER HOT girls in there. I didn't talk to them because I was just sitting at the bar and obviously they are strippers so they may not be the highest quality in other departments and hey... everyone has a butt, it's pretty bad if that's your only asset.
But I think no matter how much money you have, they would always want more and more.
I remember thinking... what if I drank too much and passed out and there were no cameras or anything... I bet 99% of these girls would rob me.
I think it would be a display of high value if I were ever to "work" from my phone at the club. Talking to realtors, workers, or whatever. Most guys have little to nothing going for them. That is one advantage I have. It's cool to be busy as opposed to just one of those guys who hangs around strip clubs, but on the other hand, they would want you to spend time around them also and not be so busy. There is really no way to win. Just another example of that. Plus, 99% chance the girls are not interesting at all.
I also remember thinking that I don't really engage anyone. Who am I? How to introduce myself? My name, obviously, but who am I past that? The guy who flips houses? Even I know that's shallow. The guy who broke his neck once? Who the fvck cares.
But at this strip club, the girls were morally depraved 20 year old. As to be expected. Drugs, tattoos, probably very little that's good going on in their brain.
What does ANY girl have to offer me if I search the whole world? Am I possibly expecting too much? It would help if they weren't so nasty and selfish all the time.
First, while I was at Winghouse, I was thinking about the ongoing debate on this forum about money versus muscles. This was my first time going out in a while. I realized that BOTH of those things are just on the surface and would only "impress" for a few seconds. To prove this, there were relatively young orbiter guys at the bar and they had muscles. The kind of muscles that it would take over a year to get. Didn't help them get sex.
I think I give off the appearance of being difficult to talk to. I had a hard time starting a conversation at Winghouse because I guess I just wasn't in the mood.
From now on, I will be looking for guys who are successful and figuring out who they are and why they are successful.
An attractive girl on Seeking Arrangement told me about her ex-boyfriend who used to beat her and was an alcoholic and she still wanted to support him because she "saw the good in him" but eventually it just got too much and she left. Luckily, she had an abortion instead of having a baby. Are these the type of guys who are successful? What kind of sense does that make? And it seems like every girl is coming out of some "bad" relationship.
I heard one girl at Winghouse a different time I was there say that her boyfriend drives an SUV and hangs out with his friends a lot. I don't know what to make of that.
Someone once told me that if I have to ask, that I'll never know. (ask what kind of guys hot girls date).
I also noticed that everyone smiles, but everyone is most likely a psycho on the inside. Keep in mind that is my first time out in a while.
Most of the girls that work there are texting or doing something with their phone while bartending. Are they texting their boyfriends? What are they saying? Boring stuff like "I love you," or are they saying stuff like "bring me home some cocaine later" or something like that? I really wish I knew what these girls' social lives are like. Maybe it's not as complicated as I'm thinking that it is. And maybe their boyfriends are not the "Supermen" that I'm imagining them to be.
Sometimes, girls will act in all the "girl ways" that lets you know that she thinks she is the sh1t and that only the best of the best get to be around her... then you'll get up close and she has a fvcking mustache.
Then, I went to the strip club. My first thought was... this place sucks. Why am I even here? It smells like herpes.
I noticed something. A lot of girls in this world are drug addicts. Some beat their children. Some lie. Some cheat. Some steal. Some are dumb as a rock. When you find a girl that has value, all she does is NOT do these bad things. She doesn't necessarily do anything GOOD, she just doesn't do anything horrible. What kind of sense does that make from these people walking around like they are queens and acting like they own the universe? This world is really fvcked up.
I also noticed that they have short attention spans. They can be all into a conversation with you... then 15 minutes later, they'll be entertained by something else.
So I was at strip club drinking beers at the bar by myself. I didn't tip any girls and only 1 girl had even come up to talk to me at that point and I didn't find her attractive. I was thinking to myself "when did I become the creepy guy?" Looking around at all the other guys by themselves looking all creepy and non-social. But THEN.....
I went to the ATM. And I saw about 15 sets of eyes following me. Then I remembered what the whole thing was about. Suddenly, I wasn't "the creepy guy" anymore. Not that anyone else called me creepy, I was just thinking it to myself.
One of the girls came up to me. We started off with the standard introduction. She had a tattoo of an elephant on her arm so I asked something about that. She said it was Ganesh so I asked if she was Hindu. She said that she goes to yoga (later find out she said she TEACHES yoga). She said something about being a member of a yoga commune in the Caribbean. She says that she drives hundreds of miles to strip at this club because the strip clubs in her hometown always want you to suck d1ck when you give dances. These clubs are comparatively tame and even have tape over the nipples. She told me that she was arrested for armed robbery and did time in prison. She said she used to hang out with Haitian guys that would give her cocaine and get her to do robberies. She said she did many, but only got caught once for robbing a McDonald's with a gun. I told her about the time I broke my neck. She thought it was pretty hardcore. Also, somehow we got to talking about the 3d printer I just bought and she thought that was really cool and said she would use it to make dildos and sell them to people if she had one.
I remember going to strip clubs years ago and the girls would say that all it would take is one rich guy to come in there and like them and it would change their life and they could stop. As bad as the armed robber girl was, there were some SUPER HOT girls in there. I didn't talk to them because I was just sitting at the bar and obviously they are strippers so they may not be the highest quality in other departments and hey... everyone has a butt, it's pretty bad if that's your only asset.
But I think no matter how much money you have, they would always want more and more.
I remember thinking... what if I drank too much and passed out and there were no cameras or anything... I bet 99% of these girls would rob me.
I think it would be a display of high value if I were ever to "work" from my phone at the club. Talking to realtors, workers, or whatever. Most guys have little to nothing going for them. That is one advantage I have. It's cool to be busy as opposed to just one of those guys who hangs around strip clubs, but on the other hand, they would want you to spend time around them also and not be so busy. There is really no way to win. Just another example of that. Plus, 99% chance the girls are not interesting at all.
I also remember thinking that I don't really engage anyone. Who am I? How to introduce myself? My name, obviously, but who am I past that? The guy who flips houses? Even I know that's shallow. The guy who broke his neck once? Who the fvck cares.
But at this strip club, the girls were morally depraved 20 year old. As to be expected. Drugs, tattoos, probably very little that's good going on in their brain.
What does ANY girl have to offer me if I search the whole world? Am I possibly expecting too much? It would help if they weren't so nasty and selfish all the time.