"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wing @ Holland / Utrecht/Rotterdam/The Hague

erm

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Hello,

I am a RAFC getting better at the moment.

I almost trained one year to destroy my approach annixity did some nlp and forced myself to approach 10 women a day. Although i had some burnouts from a few months, i was persistent.




I am looking for a wing who is commited to go out and meet some women. I gout out 2 days in the week sometimes 3. I dont need someone who is afraid, plz dont waste my time...

I am looking for someone who i can learn and visaversa.


The clubs Where i sarge is: Havana,Danzig,Hollywood music hall, Beurs, Baya Beach Club, Scheveningen, let me say it like this i go where ***** is

I am also commited to vistit other counters / citys in netherlands

Who is commited plz pm me!!! And learn from eitchoter!!!!
please dont hesitate to pm me if you wanna get good @ this cause i will back you up and give you constructive feedback. i also exspect the same back ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Erm, I know it's 5 months ago, but I live in your area and would like to help you improve your game.

Let me know; send me a private message or respond to this thread :)
 

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Hollywood Music hall? Looking to pick up 16 year olds?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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