Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Wilt, Ron, Gene, Fidel>>>>The Brad Pitts/David Beckhams

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Here’s a list of famous dudes who aren’t all “Gods” in the looks department who’ve slept with way more women than your “Brad Pitt, Denzel, Mario Lopez etc.”

15. Bill Wyman (Rolling Stones bassist) 1,000
14. Magic Johnson (basketball star) 1,000
13. Eric Clapton (Guitarist) 1,000
12. Lemmy Kilmister (Motorhead frontman) 1,200
11. Jack Nicholson (actor) 2,000
10. Ilie Nastase (tennis star) 2,500
9. Engerlbert Humperdinck (singer) 3,000
8. Julio Iglesias (singer) 3,000
7. Ron Jeremy (pornstar) 4,500
6. Gene Simmons (Kiss frontman) 4,600
5. Charlie Sheen (actor) 5,000
4. Umberto Billo (Venetian hotel porter) 8,000
3. Wilt Chamberlain (basketball star) 20,000
2. Random pharoah 34,000 (Guinness Book of world Records has proof)
1. Fidel Castro (Cuban President) 35,000
That’s not even including Mick Jagger, Frank Sinatra, Hugh Hefner, Anthony Quinn (who has multiple kids with different women) and who knows how many other celebrities who aren’t the aesthetic famous models who’ve still slept with MANY different chicks.

Funny how you never see these “Gods looks of men” topping out these types of lists. So for every “Tom Cruise, David Beckham, etc.” you can find far less attractive men banging out far more women REGARDLESS if you use celebrities. Hell even Dennis Rodman banged Carmen Electra. Nice try with the best looking always get all the chicks trollolololing.

The only two good looking dudes on the list is Julio Englesias and Charile sheen who’s destroying his looks with constant drug and alcohol abuse.

Go out. Look your best, groom yourself, dress with edgy fashion, work out, talk to chicks like normal people not objects you need to possess as if they make you as a man.

/”the best looks” determine your success with chicks Masturdebate.(It's only a part of your total package. Like it or not.) :crazy:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Here it is, you take two guys both are 5'11 and weigh 180 pounds, both are skinny fat, both look very similar almost identical, both are aged 22.

One day both of them decide to sleep with more women, one goes to gym everyday for 2 years and eats super clean the other learns game for two years and keeps his current diet.

Now stick both in a crowded environment and observe how the ladies react to both guys.

I bet the entire solar system that the dude that went to gym everyday for 2 years straight and ate a clean diet will get more attention from the ladies then from the guy that learnt pure game.

I've played sports my entire life I know what looking good does to women, they get wet very hard and very fast. Back in my peak fighting years of 22/23 I had girls tell me after a few weeks that they hated sitting in my car/moterbike without wearing a panty liner because of the way I look it made them wet.

All your game can not buy that response from a women, all the words you spit means nothing when a guy like myself can show up and girls start drooling. I am no "god looks" guy I'm just fit that's all


The list you threw up shows that each and everyone of those men had "status".

And that's what this is all about, you get the "looks" you get the "status" and you learn a tiny bit of "game". I recommend pook as a starting point and rollo's blog for more info and you will destroy 99% of the guys out there. There the entire website in a nutshell :)
 

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try this one....
typical said:
Here it is, you take two guys both are 5'11 and weigh 180 pounds, both are skinny fat, both look very similar almost identical, both are aged 22.

One day both of them decide to sleep with more women,...
one of them learns a little game, stats eating well, loses a bit of wieght and goes to the gym often, the other becoems an actor and quickly establishes himself as a lead actor, getting many roles, becoming both famous and infamous....whio gets the most women?

money, fame status outstrip looks, look up bernie ecclestone!
I also believe a lot of the women with the ugly status guys are banging the gym guy behind his back, women utilise what men have to offer, often, they have to dip into various gene pools
 

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Does it takes a genius to realize that being famous and desired from many women, make women interested in you despite your look?
Its a matter of status which is more important than look.

Ill believe what you say when between the (....) there will be employee, janitor, teacher, librarian and so on instead of rock star, singer, soccer star etc.

Would you think Jack Nicholson was baning hotties all day if he was an employee at the post office with an average salary and a second hand car?

Damn if I was a war hero worshipped on tv, I would bang more girls than joe six pack myself.

So you're actually saying that look is not all and that you can score easily as well by being famous? sure look is not all but its definitely a strong base, I would say a necessary one if you dont strongly shine elsewhere.
 

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typical said:
Here it is, you take two guys both are 5'11 and weigh 180 pounds, both are skinny fat, both look very similar almost identical, both are aged 22.

One day both of them decide to sleep with more women, one goes to gym everyday for 2 years and eats super clean the other learns game for two years and keeps his current diet.

Now stick both in a crowded environment and observe how the ladies react to both guys.

I bet the entire solar system that the dude that went to gym everyday for 2 years straight and ate a clean diet will get more attention from the ladies then from the guy that learnt pure game.

I've played sports my entire life I know what looking good does to women, they get wet very hard and very fast. Back in my peak fighting years of 22/23 I had girls tell me after a few weeks that they hated sitting in my car/moterbike without wearing a panty liner because of the way I look it made them wet.

All your game can not buy that response from a women, all the words you spit means nothing when a guy like myself can show up and girls start drooling. I am no "god looks" guy I'm just fit that's all


The list you threw up shows that each and everyone of those men had "status".

And that's what this is all about, you get the "looks" you get the "status" and you learn a tiny bit of "game". I recommend pook as a starting point and rollo's blog for more info and you will destroy 99% of the guys out there. There the entire website in a nutshell :)
sure it makes them wet. but dose it get them laid more then the guy with game. NO

that's what people are forgetting. hot mussel guy gets the ATTENTION slack Game guy gets the lay. ( MOST of the time)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm wondering where the Sultan of Brunei and his brother would fit on the list. Oh, those pious Muslims!
 

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Who Dares Win said:
Does it takes a genius to realize that being famous and desired from many women, make women interested in you despite your look?
Ninja is responding to the recent invading trolls, who maintained that looks were everything. They specifically posted pictures of celebrities in an attempt to prove that even they could not rise above their looks level.

Only thing is, the trolls posted pictures of celebrities' wives and girlfriends (LTRs). Ninja is talking about number of lays, there's a pretty big difference there. IMO, it's a lot easier to get a one night stand from a hot girl than it is to keep her in an exclusive relationship.
 

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The point of the thread is most of the dudes who are on the list aren't as good looking as David Beckham/Brad Pitt but are in/around the same "money/status" league and still have gotten more tail than the examples everyone usually uses for getting the most chicks. As if good looks is the absolute.

If we were to go by looks the David Beckhams, Brad Pitts, Tyson Beckfords should be at the top of the list but aren't. Most of the lesser in looks are.

It's like dudes who use the "Brad Pitt" example for looks getting chicks, how do they explain the Jack Nickolsons getting more tail then the Brad Pitt example? You can't have things one way then discount the other.

Ex: Bradd Pitt type of dudes get all the chicks.

Then how do you explain the Jack Nicholsons getting way more than the Brad Pitt types?
 

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Naughty Ninja said:


Then how do you explain the Jack Nicholsons getting way more than the Brad Pitt types?
not being married and having been on the planet a lot longer
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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betheman said:
not being married and having been on the planet a lot longer

Doesn't matter as Gene Simmons is younger than him, married and has slept with far more women than Jack R.

For dudes who use examples of "models" theres always many more variables to take into account other than "looks trumps all" as again most of the dudes on the list aren't as good looking as dudes in their same "money/status" league.
 

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I think it's Mostly about having character.\ and character comes from on-the-edge hard work, sometimes as a team-mate having someone's back, there are old men who oooze character, they get the women cause you can't buy character, Daddy's Boy who gets all his money from daddy will have trouble keeping the girl long, I mean, true genuine interest from her, if he never had to dig from the bottom. Wilt, Mick, most of these people in the list come from nothing that's attractive to chicks
 

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A lot of it actually depends on lifestyle. Brad Pitt isn't a party boy celebrity; he enters relationships and gets married. Same with Justin Timberlake and others.

Also, just because someone is exceptionally good looking - doesn't mean they exploit that to bang sluts - even if the opportunity is available. People used to call me gay because women were showing strong sexual signals, but at the time I was more relationship / love minded (with the same sluts who just wanted sex... loooooool). But my friends who didn't get as many open opportunities / had to approach were banging women left and right - because it was their whole lifestyle and mindset: partying, drinking, and getting laid. Yea, they got rejected a lot, but they didn't give a ****. They were all about the numbers; mingling, flirting with, and initiating sex with damn near everyone. And every scene they went to revolved around this lifestyle - as well as the kind of (trashy) women they approached. It's what they were all about.

I don't think alot of people realize that just because you CAN - doesn't mean you DO. Of course, all the losers couldn't grasp that, so anyone not getting laid was ugly or gay. There always had to be a deformation for their simple, shallow minds to define, because everyone had to be as worthless as them. Still hate those mother****ers. :cuss:

If your focus is on getting laid, and you are at least reasonably attractive - it's not hard to get a high number. Especially when you have a rich celebrity lifestyle. These guys got laid just by approaching in a small town. Now imagine being a in big city, with huge parties, an active night-life, money to spend, and all these opportunities everywhere. AND being famous, having groupies, traveling, living the high class life, etc. Easy.

Shallow, materialistic, status-obsessed sluts that just want to bang and live the "life" are everywhere, and there a lot of guys willing to take advantage of that. Some guys are all about getting laid - just as the girls fit the same lifestyle.
 

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Why does everyone look at this as a black and white deal? Looks matter or they don't?

It's not black and white. Yes - this means looks AND game both matter. How much they matter depend on the woman in question. Money, status, both additionally fall into the categories here. How interesting and intelligent you are can also factor in, depending on the woman. There's much more to attracting a woman than simply looking good - many betas can look good from working out and never get laid because they lack the confidence, the knowledge, the ability to follow up from the initial attention. Many guys with game could likely benefit from spending a few months working out and polishing their look. Those that do both are going to benefit the most.

Those who focus on all areas of their life, instead of devoting themselves to game, or devoting themselves to looking good and pretending that's all you need, are going to be the breadwinners of the population.

Consider this; women all have different priorities and standards as to what defines a high-caliber man. Some women want a rich man, some want the best looking guy, some want a high status guy. Each one will have a weighted set of priorities - the one who wants a rich man may factor a higher weighting towards a man's money, and lowering the value of the other factors.

To specifically address looks, it provides benefits in terms of initial attention and attraction. It is easier to grab a girl's attention when you look good. How long you keep it, however, is going to be determined by other factors. If a good looking guy talks to a girl, can't meet her eyes, and quietly asks "Well, umm.. I.. umm.. just wanted.. umm.. to see if you wanted.. umm.. to get coffee with me." - there's no way he's gonna get the lay, likely not even a date.

However, if a guy looks awful, and can spit good game, he may be able to attract a girl. May. It's a hard road, though, and instead of trying to learn more game, that same guy should focus on balancing his lifestyle.

There's rich betas, high status betas, and there's good-looking betas. Having a balanced life is supreme over any single quality, even if you excel in that one single area.

Some people forget that you still need the confidence to speak to and ask out women. That is not part of looking good; that is inherent in a person's character and personality, and more rightly belongs on the game side. I know many good looking guys, who when faced with a girl staring them down and checking them out, would not follow up and even talk to them.
 

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floydb25 said:
Also, just because someone is exceptionally good looking - doesn't mean they exploit that to bang sluts - even if the opportunity is available.
Example- David Schwimmer also directs films. This says to me he actually wants to get somewhere that means something. The media, and the deluded women who lap it up, tend to focus however on him being in Friends.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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All of those people up there listed are rich and famous with high status. Since men value love but women love value, of course they'll have a very large pool of women to choose from who will choose them. The muscleman will also have a large pool of women to choose from.

Your game, confidence, personality, swag, etc. ain't gonna raise your physical and financial attractiveness.

When I was in college, popularity and a nice car could really do wonders for how women treat you. Got me more chicks than I could dream of. When you get out, it's about the money/ resources.
 

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Keep in mind, self-reported sexual statistics are worthless to analyze. Wilt Chamberlain's number has been widely debunked -- I think somebody calculated that he would have had to sleep with a new woman every 18 hours for 25 years straight or something ridiculous.

Castro would have had to bang 2 new women a day, every day, for 50 years.

So, um, no. The only verifiable one would be Ron Jeremy, if you'd care to watch all his films (I wouldn't).
 

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In high school the dudes who banged the most chicks were the ones who tried to no exceptions and even now I knew a guy with a lazy eye who was in the 20s
 

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TDH said:
In high school the dudes who banged the most chicks were the ones who tried to no exceptions
I completely agree with this, and it matches my observations. Some guys are just driven to bang a lot of girls, and as soon as they bang one they go on to the next one. That's what they want to do, that's what they're invested in.

Those guys are going to bang a lot more women than a guy who may be a lot better looking, but is happier to just have a steady girlfriend.
 

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Zarky said:
Keep in mind, self-reported sexual statistics are worthless to analyze. Wilt Chamberlain's number has been widely debunked -- I think somebody calculated that he would have had to sleep with a new woman every 18 hours for 25 years straight or something ridiculous.

Castro would have had to bang 2 new women a day, every day, for 50 years.

So, um, no. The only verifiable one would be Ron Jeremy, if you'd care to watch all his films (I wouldn't).

Who knows. Perhaps Wilt and certain dudes were fluffing numbers counting multiple group orgies as more women they've slept with.

The point I was making is even though there are good looking dudes if you take the men on their status/money level there are just as much if not more guys who aren't the tops in looks banging more chicks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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