Will you guys help a 3/10 get a date?

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

If you see yourself as a 3/10, then make women see you as a 6/10 or 7/10 or 8/10. If you really wanted to, you would. But you don't. So to amswer the question in the title, no. I will not help you get a date. You are most likely a troll anyway. Most first-posts of users on here ask for advice in their first thread, not tell us how ugly they are. If they did, they would ask for ways to make themselves look better.

 

[dude99]

Building confidence takes time, but will be a by product of "taking care of yourself". The more confidence you have, the more confidence you can get...

Agreed. Building up every aspectof our lives takes time. If we want success in anything we have to invest in ourselves. Hopefully the OP is willing to do that.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Honestly I believe the guys here are way too optimistic, many delusional.

If you are a 3/10 or perceived as such the best thing you can do is to realize that you have to put some work to improve yourself, only once you reach a certain point you can aim at fvcking, yeah fvcking as bible belt said...aiming to date is basically embracing someone else mindframe.

If you problem is being short nothing much you can do, if you're skinny, fat or skinnyfat hit the gym and fix your diet and life style, if your problem is lack of self esteem do something that will fix it, either hit the gym and get in shape or get a hobby that will mold you into a manly version of yourself.

There are no such things as being a 3 but become a 7 out of nowhere just because you "decide" to be more confident, your level depends on the value you provide physically, mentally and personally.

If someone thinks that "confidence" turns a 3 into a 7, he should also believe that installing windows 10 on a comodor64 will turn it into a alienware gaming pc.

Confidence is the result of victory, is the knowledge that statistically you score high, its a conseguence of success not a random item created out of warm air.

 

[Serenity]

but what if women see you like that. is it game over?

No, how women see you depends largely upon attributes that can be changed/improved. Like personality, attitude and form of expression (how you walk and talk). Looks is to some degree naturally changeable, like losing weight or gaining weight in the form of muscles. It is however a lesser success factor than your attitudes and behaviors.

Thinking it's game over is the ultimate worst attitude to attract women.

mostly online dating, social networks: Facebook, Tinder etc. Lots of women. Yes the words of Pook are inspiring but i was wondering if he was including guys like myself when he made the Book Of Pook.

The Book of Pook is written especially to address your type of problems. He was once like you, even I was once like you. He dragged himself out of it with a tremendous determination to achieve attractiveness, so he did. Then he shared his experiences to help out guys with similar issues that he once had, but no longer has. You must understand that it's not merely an inspirational text, it's the solutions to your problems. He didn't have anyone to tell him the solutions, he figured it out the hard way. You have the advantage of using his work, it will save you a lot of time and pain.

His determined attitude was a seed for his success, are you really determined to fix your weaknesses? Are you ready to put in some hard work on yourself to improve? That's really what ultimately counts, your determination and effort.