"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Will you buy me a drink?"

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Wow. A girl actually asked me to do this just this Saturday. I thought this sort of things only happens in movies.

I asked her why I should buy her a drink. She said that it's because she's hot. Honestly she didn't look too bad, but the nerve! She asked a guy (me) that she doesn't know to buy her a drink? What makes her think that I'm going to do it?

I told her that I'm not buying a drink for her, and how she looks isn't enough reason. I'll only buy drinks for others I know, and that's if I think there's a reasonable chance that they'll buy me some drinks later.

Sometimes people have offered me drinks, and I only accept after I try to talk them out of it, and fail. But, I've never asked if someone else could buy me one without plans to pay them back later.

Has this actually happened to anyone else here in real life? I seriously thought that it was one of those cliche urban legends, like the bar fights of the "Wild West."


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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just say no. If you're a millionare then you MIGHT concider buying a girl a drink cause it doesn't mean anything to you. You could buy it for her and not even acknowledge her if you're ballin. When ever a girl ask me to buy her a drink out of no where after we just met, I tell them maybe in a minute and go back to the conversation if possible. If they walk up to me out of no where and ask for a drink I look at them like they're crazy and tell them to f*ck off, cause that's just dissrespectful.

If people ask to buy me a drink and I know they're rich, I'll accept flat out. If they offer and they're average I'll tell them I'm okay out of respect.
 
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