"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Will you buy me a drink?"

Abbott

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Wow. A girl actually asked me to do this just this Saturday. I thought this sort of things only happens in movies.

I asked her why I should buy her a drink. She said that it's because she's hot. Honestly she didn't look too bad, but the nerve! She asked a guy (me) that she doesn't know to buy her a drink? What makes her think that I'm going to do it?

I told her that I'm not buying a drink for her, and how she looks isn't enough reason. I'll only buy drinks for others I know, and that's if I think there's a reasonable chance that they'll buy me some drinks later.

Sometimes people have offered me drinks, and I only accept after I try to talk them out of it, and fail. But, I've never asked if someone else could buy me one without plans to pay them back later.

Has this actually happened to anyone else here in real life? I seriously thought that it was one of those cliche urban legends, like the bar fights of the "Wild West."


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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PRMoon

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Just say no. If you're a millionare then you MIGHT concider buying a girl a drink cause it doesn't mean anything to you. You could buy it for her and not even acknowledge her if you're ballin. When ever a girl ask me to buy her a drink out of no where after we just met, I tell them maybe in a minute and go back to the conversation if possible. If they walk up to me out of no where and ask for a drink I look at them like they're crazy and tell them to f*ck off, cause that's just dissrespectful.

If people ask to buy me a drink and I know they're rich, I'll accept flat out. If they offer and they're average I'll tell them I'm okay out of respect.
 
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