"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Will this tax my back?

Krueg

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Okay, so for my shoulders I like to do Clean & Presses. I feel with the added cleaning motion I'll work other muscles and give myself a more, hurculean look. Though, I'm also doing Deadlifts the same day. Now, my clean and presses are obviously lighter than my deadlifts cause, I'm just using enough weight for my shoulders. But, I'm wondering if doing that and deadlifts in the same day would be too much on my back? I guess I could just switch to dumbbell shoulder presses or military press.

What do you guys think?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Krueg

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Well DanZy, I think I'll have to agree with you. I just don't want to over-train my back by doing extra cleaning movements. I'll stick to doing them for awhile and switch it up when necessary.
 

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This is fine. There really is no such thing as over-training unless you're working out 2-3 times a day and not getting enough rest and eating enough.
 
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