"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Will This Mess Up My Game?

PVSSY-EATER

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Okay, let me get to the point. I dont know how to fight. I mean, people always like to test me and I cant never raise to the challenge because I know I will get beat up. But heres the thing, I go to the gym all the time and I have a great body and muscles too! I have only won about one out of the 10 fights I have been in, in my life. I have tried to read books on it, but I just cant figure out a way of defending myself. Would this mess up my interest level with girls, I do tell them I am not the fighting type and they can always tell, but guys just please give me some light.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is easy, don't get in any fights. I'm a ****ing champ when it comes to fighting, and rarely do i ever get into any fights. Girls don't give a **** if you win fights, and nor should you. The only people I"ve met in real life who liked to fight were insecure *****es.
 

PVSSY-EATER

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But are you sure that if I dont fight it wont lower their interest in me? What if the guy is hitting me or calling me out?
 

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^ Why? This is a valid question.

Nobody gives a flying fvck if you can fight or not. What matters is whether you LOOK like you could kick some ass. It's part of the dominant image. Physical size is important.

Being able to fight is not important - you can walk away from 98% of them unharmed. Everyone is full of talk and nothing to back it up nowadays. But if you actually learn how to defend yourself, it will greatly aid your confidence.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lmao

i havent been in a fight since high school. maybe you need to change the places you go out at

or find another messageboard to troll

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