"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Will this interfere with my weightlifting

Celadus

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I've been doing a starting strength routine for about 4 months. I just got back into a martial art I've been doing on and off for a few years. We do a lot of breathing exercises doing slow pushups and squats. Never really do many at once but its enough to make me sore since I haven't done anything like it in awhile.

Generally I stop getting sore a month or two after I get back into it. Will this interfere with my weight gains? Its just once a week right now but I may do it up to three times a week at some point.

Celadus
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I-tallionStallion

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Depends on how much you eat
 

Quagmire911

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You may or may not manage once a week, my guess is you'd get away with it.

If intensity is high and you do it three times a week however, you're Cns might be too drained and your body won't put on any weight. Regardless of food consumption.

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