"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Will the layout of these forums ever be updated?

Brighty

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Just curious, there's no real need to do it - if it ain't broke don't fix it - but its interesting to see that these forums have stayed the same since I joined back in 2006 (and I'm sure they were the same before then too). There are a few things that could be added for the ease of convenience (i.e. pressing CTRL + B to automatically bold text instead of clicking the icon and formatting it manually, etc)

As much as I roll my eyes at Facebook in general, a bunch of internet forums have begun implementing a "Like" option next to a post (IGN, etc). I thought it was little more than obnoxious bandwagon pandering at first, but after frequenting the IGN boards for a month or two, I began to realize how significant it is - to the point where I notice the absence here. It's an easy way to see the validity/credibility of a post or where the community stands (especially considering that this forum is all about giving advice), or make an exceptional post write-up stand out to a person reading a thread at a glance.

Then again I don't work with InvisionFree or know what the original owner of this forum is even up to now, so this may not even be feasible. I dunno, I just thought I'd see what the community thinks.


Below is a link to one of the boards on IGN that has this layout, you can see how it operates.

http://www.ign.com/boards/forums/the-vestibule.5296/
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Aristippus

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Brighty said : As much as I roll my eyes at Facebook in general, a bunch of internet forums have begun implementing a "Like" option next to a post (IGN, etc). I thought it was little more than obnoxious bandwagon pandering at first,

That's because it IS nothing more than obnoxious bandwagon pandering. Facebook will eventually crash and burn like the Hindenburg and when it does, I'll be laughing about it. The whole 15 minutes of fame thing is pathetic by itself. Facebook is for the sad sacks who WISH they could have their 15 minutes of fame but will never even get THAT.

About the forum. I think if something already works well, there's no need to mess with it. Too many people ruin an already good thing by trying to improve something that really doesn't need improvement. Something that is simple and efficient doesn't need to be messed with.
 
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It's way better like this. Not only that, I prefer using the "Default" color scheme rather than "PowerBlue" which what you get when you sign up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Brighty

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Returned to the forums and pleased to see the new layout. based
 

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Hope they don't update the layout. I prefer the layout and features of this forum more than 90% of the other forums I frequent. Reddit to me has one of the worst layouts in forum history.
 

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We now have the Ctrl+B function, but we do charge your PaPal account 10 cents for each use to cover expenses.
 
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