Will she cheat again?

[DonJuanit0]

Do you believe that a woman who has cheated on her ex will cheat on you too? No matter what she says she will always remain a woman impossible to be trusted? Or is it on us to prevent this from happening and being a better man she wouldn't cheat?

 

[oneboy21]

Once cheater is always a cheater, Do not trust cheaters.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

You gotta be the better man. Who knows what the other guy was like. When I enter a relationship with a woman I don't even care about their past. If they cheated on their ex I really don't care. I know I have but that doesn't mean that I will cheat on the new girl.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Any woman can cheat. There's no point in calling a woman a "cheater," you might as well call her human. If a relationship becomes bad enough, and suddenly someone else happens to be there for her to give her the happy thoughts that you aren't, then she will cheat. It has been happening since the beginning of time and will never change. Men are no different. Infidelity is inherent within the human condition.

 

[49au]

If a woman cheats on her boyfriend with me (whether he was meeting her needs or not), I would never trust her.

If a woman breaks up with him for me, before anything physical happens, I could trust her.

 

[Scars]

My theory: Anyone can/will cheat if they are put in a tempting situation and know they can get away with it. It's just a matter of finding someone who's willing to not put themselves in those tempting situations in the first place.

-Scars

 

[Quick]

Anyone can cheat under the right circumstances. That's why it's so common for people to cheat when they're on vacation somewhere. Romantic atmosphere, "exotic" partner, low risk of being caught or a sticky situation afterwards...

I agree with those who said that the people who are less likely to cheat are the ones who realize their weaknesses, and stay out of situations where they'd be weak. For instance, they don't start eating lunch alone with an attractive co-worker. The only way you really know if someone makes good decisions is time spent observing them. You can also make cheating less likely by giving her frequent orgasms.

In the end, this is really a useless question to ask. By the time you've agreed to be monogamous with her, you'll already have decided she is trustworthy. If you haven't, you're a fool for agreeing.

 

[Jaylan]

^disagree with the last two posts. I have had opps to cheat in my time with some real lookers and its beneath me to ever do so.

So no not everyone can cheat.

But regarding the OP, I could never trust a girl whos betrayed her lover in the past.

 

[The_411]

Usually the cheating is irrelevant because you'll likely see other massive character flaws that will manifest themselves that should have you running for the exit.

The key is to look for remorse and steps taken to correct the behavior. Most of the time there's no remorse so you know that it can and likely will happen again.

Otherwise I'd suggest staying away form a women that cheats in terms of LTRs