"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Will My Muay Thai Training Bulk Me Up?

stuartSan

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Hi guys. I've been practicing Muay Thai for a few months now, and absolutely love it.

The problem is, I've been noticing some huge guys in my studio that has been practicing for years. I mean.. they're huge! Their thighs are big, their arms are big, and they're just bulky in general.

I've always thought Muay Thai artists were lean and rip, due to the nature of the training. While there are skinny guys training there, I'm a little afraid I'll become huge myself. My training consists of:

Different kicks, usually 200-300.
Sit-ups in between kicks usually 100 total.
Different punches, usually 300-500.
Push-ups in between punches usually 100 total.
Free-weights, different curls. Usually 100-200.
Dynamic tension (where we hold a position that stresses the muscles, e.g: halfway down a push-up)
Techniques.

Your insights are appreciated. Thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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it will add muscle mass if you are very small atm, will definitely tone you up...

if you lift weights with it, that will definitely help you add mass ;)
 

Mjazz

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Well since youve been doing it for a few months, how do you look compared to when youve started? A few months is enough time to change. If you look the same, then you probably wont change very much.
 

Skilla_Staz

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Muy Thai alone will not cause you to get "huge"


Chances are those guys have been lifting for ages, eating well for ages, and busting their asses for ages.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BluEyes

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The only way you can get "huge" is by lifting increasingly heavier weights. These big guys probably took one of these approaches:

1) Always went to the gym to get big, started Muay Thai to give all that hard work meaning.

2) started Muay Thai, began going to the gym on the side to compliment training.
 

stuartSan

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Thanks for the replies.

To clear things up, I don't ever wanna be as huge as them. Just ripped.

Looking at them that huge just scares me.

Guess I gotta stay off the heavy weights.
 
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