"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Will My Muay Thai Training Bulk Me Up?

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Hi guys. I've been practicing Muay Thai for a few months now, and absolutely love it.

The problem is, I've been noticing some huge guys in my studio that has been practicing for years. I mean.. they're huge! Their thighs are big, their arms are big, and they're just bulky in general.

I've always thought Muay Thai artists were lean and rip, due to the nature of the training. While there are skinny guys training there, I'm a little afraid I'll become huge myself. My training consists of:

Different kicks, usually 200-300.
Sit-ups in between kicks usually 100 total.
Different punches, usually 300-500.
Push-ups in between punches usually 100 total.
Free-weights, different curls. Usually 100-200.
Dynamic tension (where we hold a position that stresses the muscles, e.g: halfway down a push-up)
Techniques.

Your insights are appreciated. Thanks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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howardalex

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it will add muscle mass if you are very small atm, will definitely tone you up...

if you lift weights with it, that will definitely help you add mass ;)
 

Mjazz

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Well since youve been doing it for a few months, how do you look compared to when youve started? A few months is enough time to change. If you look the same, then you probably wont change very much.
 

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Muy Thai alone will not cause you to get "huge"


Chances are those guys have been lifting for ages, eating well for ages, and busting their asses for ages.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BluEyes

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The only way you can get "huge" is by lifting increasingly heavier weights. These big guys probably took one of these approaches:

1) Always went to the gym to get big, started Muay Thai to give all that hard work meaning.

2) started Muay Thai, began going to the gym on the side to compliment training.
 

stuartSan

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Thanks for the replies.

To clear things up, I don't ever wanna be as huge as them. Just ripped.

Looking at them that huge just scares me.

Guess I gotta stay off the heavy weights.
 
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