"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Will My Muay Thai Training Bulk Me Up?

stuartSan

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Hi guys. I've been practicing Muay Thai for a few months now, and absolutely love it.

The problem is, I've been noticing some huge guys in my studio that has been practicing for years. I mean.. they're huge! Their thighs are big, their arms are big, and they're just bulky in general.

I've always thought Muay Thai artists were lean and rip, due to the nature of the training. While there are skinny guys training there, I'm a little afraid I'll become huge myself. My training consists of:

Different kicks, usually 200-300.
Sit-ups in between kicks usually 100 total.
Different punches, usually 300-500.
Push-ups in between punches usually 100 total.
Free-weights, different curls. Usually 100-200.
Dynamic tension (where we hold a position that stresses the muscles, e.g: halfway down a push-up)
Techniques.

Your insights are appreciated. Thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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howardalex

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it will add muscle mass if you are very small atm, will definitely tone you up...

if you lift weights with it, that will definitely help you add mass ;)
 

Mjazz

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Well since youve been doing it for a few months, how do you look compared to when youve started? A few months is enough time to change. If you look the same, then you probably wont change very much.
 

Skilla_Staz

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Muy Thai alone will not cause you to get "huge"


Chances are those guys have been lifting for ages, eating well for ages, and busting their asses for ages.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BluEyes

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The only way you can get "huge" is by lifting increasingly heavier weights. These big guys probably took one of these approaches:

1) Always went to the gym to get big, started Muay Thai to give all that hard work meaning.

2) started Muay Thai, began going to the gym on the side to compliment training.
 

stuartSan

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Thanks for the replies.

To clear things up, I don't ever wanna be as huge as them. Just ripped.

Looking at them that huge just scares me.

Guess I gotta stay off the heavy weights.
 
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