Will I loose her as a friend if I just f-ck her?

[vagrant]

I met a girl at work the other day. We talked for a little bit the first day we met. The second day which was yesterday I was sitting down and there was a chair near me. She sat and talked to me for a little bit before she went home.

I didn't expect it from her because I just met her but before she left she leaned over and hugged me. She smelled really good.

I don't know if she just wants to f-ck but if she's looking for a relationship I'm not the guy to give that right now.

I want to keep her as a friend but at the same time I want to f-ck her so I don't think that will work out.

This is my first time being in this situation and I need help. :yes:

 

[cyraid]

Every heard of a f-buddy or f-friend? That could work out...

 

[MacAvoy]

If you want to see the pitfalls of fvcking a girl that you work with, look at this thread, its 20 pages long, but if you read the first 5 pages, you'll get the idea of why its not worth the hassle

 

[BlackDragon]

go for it, before you get stuck in the friend's zone.

 

[SunnyD]

Hey, I've been there with the work thing and if this is someone you will have to see on the regular...DON'T DO IT. My situation ended so unbelievably ugly, and anyone else I have known to have an "office hookup."

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

If she gives you a hug the second time she see's you that's a good sign from my experience. I'd say its a green light for you to step up ur game and hit that hairy spot. If you become fvck buddy's with someone you work with it can work out. You just better find a balance between your work life, friendship, and sex life with her. Or sh!t will go down hill.

 

[vagrant]

I won't be seeing her regularly because I work night shift from 10pm to 6am. She works from 12pm to 7pm. I was just there because they needed someone to work because one of the worker couldn't make it.

I guess I should've told you all that I have a girlfriend. She lives in another state. I can't end it with her because she's just one of the rare ones though it's frustrating me that I can't get some as often as I would like.

Damn, why is it so hard for me to break a girl's heart?!?!?!?!

 

[KontrollerX]

Yeah you'll probably lose her as a friend because chicks in general can't make sex an un-emotional act.

So yeah just fvck her already because...

1. You'll probably regret it if you don't and you hear her talking about someother guy thats had her or having her right now while you play friends with her.

2. Since posters here have alerted you to the potential catastrophic workplace fallout from going the fvck her route you can make an informed decision if fvcking her is right for you.

3. I could be wrong but it doesn't sound to me like you are at a job you are going to stay with permaneantly anyway so if things turn disasterous you'll be able to get out of it just fine.