"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Will an interested woman always initiate texting?

F8009

New Member
Joined
Apr 3, 2014
Messages
5
Reaction score
0
they WILL initiate, but if you're not at least a 8/10 guy or get lucky, forget about it.

Only girl ever initiated for me, was some chick I met on the party. I never saw so much passion, desire and sexuality in girl's eyes as I did in her. She was kissing me not only on face, but also on neck and my stomach, she was undressing me in front of all her friends and I saw that glaze in her eyes, that she wants suck my stick right there and get bucked hard. Her body language was sexy as hell and I think she was 1st girl who grabbed my stick by herself, before I grabbed her pusi. Next day my mobile was ringing, early in the morning.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

skinnyguy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 2, 2013
Messages
3,422
Reaction score
1,235
If she thinks you're very attractive, then yes she will initiate.

My boy in Mexico was having HB 9's coming up to him and asking him to go out to the clubs, etc. This guy is a total pimp and can get anything he wants without trying. I have seen it with my own eyes.

So yes, for most guys it is tougher but you do with what you have.
 

JaegerPilot217

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 25, 2013
Messages
1,229
Reaction score
16
skinnyguy said:
If she thinks you're very attractive, then yes she will initiate.

My boy in Mexico was having HB 9's coming up to him and asking him to go out to the clubs, etc. This guy is a total pimp and can get anything he wants without trying. I have seen it with my own eyes.

So yes, for most guys it is tougher but you do with what you have.
Great to hear
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Top