"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Will a goatee repel women?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

T Money

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 9, 2006
Messages
343
Reaction score
3
Age
42
Location
California
I would keep it shorter than that. Like a 2 or a 3 speaking in barber shop razor's terms. Something clean cut, I think that women don't like the shaggy hair coming off of a chin.
 

NSUballer

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 30, 2005
Messages
459
Reaction score
7
Age
40
Location
New Orleans
i have a goatee and never had any complaints, depends on if u can pull it off or not..........
 

milrenkb

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 15, 2006
Messages
222
Reaction score
2
*laughing* get a soul patch
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Taser

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 1, 2005
Messages
11
Reaction score
0
Location
SE MI
Best Thing I've Ever Done

Over my vacation, I said goodbye to my receding hairline, shaved my head, and grew a goatee--one that does connect to a moustache.

Women's comments have been unanimously positive.
 
Top