"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Will a female camoflauge her interest after displaying high interest?

spunkylimburger

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I have been seeing a girl who has very high interest (even going so far as to tell a mutual friend, who in turn told me in confidence). However, after revealing her interest to our mutual friend, she has scaled back her interest. For example, she would usually start texts and sometimes offer dates, but now she does not do this. She is still very receptive to me when I contact her, so this isnt a case of declining interest, I believe she is disguising her interest in order to see if I will chase after her. Has anyone else experienced this?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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AllCreation

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She told her friend to try to hook you. She wants to be chased now. Her interest is NOT declined, she's waiting for you to come validate her. This kind of **** happens all the time.

tl;dr

Don't chase her
Send her some mixed messages
Cold shoulder her for a week or two
She'll get frustrated that she doesn't understand you
Profit
 
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